My HB broke my method..... need help

[iffyjiff]

sup guys

Ive got this HB 8-9 who im gaming atm. we hit it off since the first day of school, she actually moved from a local-ish school so i had seen her out once or twice but now we actually got time to talk and shes pretty fun cool etc

basically she broke all the rules and i cant escalate. we ofc got the attraction stage over with, the getting to now each other better over with, but now what?
unfortunately she is prone to having guy friends more than other girls but she always orbits back to me and i seem to be the only guy she sucks up to looks up to etc she wants me

but we already moved all the way up the kino scale as we got to know each other, and we freaking almost made out at a club last weekend when my dumbshit friend interrupted us. now were back to as if we never almost made out and its driving me crazy!

how am i supposed to escalate without kino? help!

[slyman]

i don't see why you can't kino/escalate? what rules dude she break? check out the dicarlo escalation ladder if your having trouble escalating, its posted somewhere here on the forum.

[iffyjiff]

that's what i mean man, we've gotten all the way up the scale without actually hitting bases, so now when i escalate using the same ladder it almost doesn't mean anything know what i mean? she doesn't react the same way we did when i first did

[slyman]

ohh, I see. Don't count me as an expert on this board compared to some of the other legends here (all the specialists), but my advice would be just to introduce new things, such as a k-close routine (find the ultimate k-close thread under education). once you have kissed, you will be able to escalate more intamately i think.

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

to be honest I don't understand your question. What I understood was that she doesn't let you kino escalate. Assuming that you have other chicks that you also flirt with, maybe she is just having some buyers remorse, or last minute resistance, handle it maturely she will appreciate that. In Mystery's terms, you have to kino until she gives you resistance, then give her an IOD using an IOI calibrator, DHV, and try to kino again. If that's to complicated to keep in your head in field then think of it this way. Kino when she resists back off a little try again, your ego should take care of the IOD naturally

[iffyjiff]

Yeah Luis good tip, just uuuh what's an ioi calibrator? Never heard of it but the rest Of what you said is logical. Idk I guess I'm trying to find a way to not rely so heavily on kino, without it i can't escelate which kinda scares me 0_o'

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

Sept 19, 2010 17:51:15 GMT -5 iffyjiff said:

Yeah Luis good tip, just uuuh what's an ioi calibrator? Never heard of it but the rest Of what you said is logical. Idk I guess I'm trying to find a way to not rely so heavily on kino, without it i can't escelate which kinda scares me 0_o'

a calibrator is something you use to soften up the IOD (or IOI)
examples: "you're so cute(ioi), it sickens me(IOD callibrator)
"I don't trust you (IOD), I mean you're cool(IOI callbrator) but I don't trust you(it sounded good in mah head)

[slyman]

aka push pull: the foundation of all attraction. some sort of push pull is in every type of game that you could possibly use to be successful.