GTFO

[perceverance]

I am constantly getting pushed out of my social groups. I dont even know why, i am trying to socialize with the ''popular'' kids and I get along pretty well but they start talking shit about me as a way of joking around with me but then shit gets serious and they kind of start talking shit for real. the problem is, if i just dont talk to them anymore, i have like no chance of getting with the ''popular'' chicks who are basiclly the only HB 7-10's in my grade. I try to just brush it off but its like an everyday thing. Also, i am constantly having trouble coming up with things TO TALK ABOUT. seriously though, i have close to nothing in common with these guys except that some of them are on my football team. HELP PLEASE

Im sooooo sure that if i can get into the social group, i can get the girls. I have the ability to do so because 2-3 chicks from that group like me but they don't really socialize with me because I am barely trying to make it inside the group.

[bravo]

Your getting AMOGED man, this happened to me with two other guys, and apparently people do this when they see you as a person of lower value, or someone who is weaker. This generally comes from being too needy, or not standing up for yourself when they talk shit/make fun of you to your face. If I had to guess, I'd say by now its too late. Because I tried doing it with my two friends (defending myself/roasting the shit out of them) and it only made it worse because they knew that they got to me. Best thing you can do now, is to keep trying to stay with them till you can hook a hot babe in, or just ditch them and try to find some 7's or 8's that are around in your school.

[perceverance]

Shit, i had a feeling it was AMOGing. so i cant do anything but take their shit until i hook up with a girl? bcuz the only hot girls are the ones in this specific group. now, is there any way i could amog them back?

[Sye~]

Just tell them the joke aint funny straight up.
Kinda like when someone flips, and tells you no, or stop in a serious tone.
You just stop and accept it.

Well thats what I did to stop white people from greeting me saying, "wuddup my nigga". Even tho they were my boys.. looked bad in front of my Bredrans.

[bravo]

Oct 2, 2010 2:11:01 GMT -5 perceverance said:

Shit, i had a feeling it was AMOGing. so i cant do anything but take their shit until i hook up with a girl? bcuz the only hot girls are the ones in this specific group. now, is there any way i could amog them back?

Like I said, if I had to take a guess, I'd say now its too late because they already have recognized you as "the guy who sits there and takes it" So if you tried amoging back, they would give you shit and say shit like "oh now, he grew some balls, he's standing up for himself haha etc." I say this because this happened to me, I was in a similar situation when I wanted a girl in a certain group, I ended up getting her, but god damn it wasnt worth getting roasted the shit out of in the process. Will never do that again. But if you still wanna go through with it, the best thing for you to do now, is be unreactive and ignore them, pretend like you dont even hear them, when they try to amog, just agree with them in a cocky way and make them look stupid, believe it or not, a good way to do this is agreeing with them. Like if they call you a loser or a fag, be like "Oh yea, Im such a loser man, I thought you already knew" But to be honest man, I doubt this group has the ONLY hot girls, I am absolutely sure in other groups, you WILL find hot girls. Ditch these losers, get with people that are real and respect you. All these people you are talking about are insecure, so they talk shit to make themselves feel better.

[n0c0ntr0l]

Basically they are trying to establish the pecking order. If they start shooting shit at you

a: Stay calm, you have GOT to keep your cool, the calmer you are about it the better.

B. Give it back. Don't let them have the last laugh, shoot the shit right back at them. but when all is said and done, slap them on the back and laugh about it. Cause it's just banter. As you get better at throwing insults back, they'll stop testing you.

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

If you wanna be the shit you gotta be willing to kiss some ass.

[darkpwns]

Oct 7, 2010 10:32:06 GMT -5 Luis the awesomest of awesomes said:

If you wanna be the shit you gotta be willing to kiss some ass.

Is that a fucking joke?

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

Oct 7, 2010 12:41:04 GMT -5 darkpwns said:

Oct 7, 2010 10:32:06 GMT -5 Luis the awesomest of awesomes said:

If you wanna be the shit you gotta be willing to kiss some ass.

Is that a fucking joke?

yes, yes it is

[SamethP]

heres an idea. ignore the guys and game the chicks.
get in the chick social circle, have them talking to you all the time and the guys will be instantly AMOG'd, like "oh shit we were wrong about him" and you either get accepted, or accept them
but yeah, dont worry so much about the guys, if they are going to interrupt your gaming by trying to AMOG you, then neg them... yes neg them

chatting to an HB
AMOG: ohhhh on the tuneeeeee cuntttttt
You (looking at him like he's a retard and then turning back to the chick): wow, how can you girls put up with this macho act?

or something along those lines, he's beta-fied and you DLV him and make the chicks laugh.

when me and jenkinz were still in school, a lot of the 'popular' guys didnt like us because all of the chicks did. but we were (as everyone else has said) chill and threw the shit back at them without DLVing ourselves.

[Lego]

first of all dont start DEFENDING yourself, when they fire off some trash talk dont try to come up with a comeback or the correct words, if you start defending yourself you've already lost.
Also dont let them GET TO YOU, cus once they see your weakness they will use it over and over again. Most importantly when they start trash talking instantly let them know that you simply dont give a fuck what they think, let them know that whatever the fuck they are saying doesn't make no impact on you whatsoever. if you are interrupted in a group by a dude trying to amog you, just give him solid eye contact for a couple of seconds, just smile at him like he is a clown that said something funny, keep eye contact and wait for the tension to build up, when he looks away you say something along the lines of "aaanyway...(then continue your conversation)"