Pressure

[perceverance]

Alright, so a few days ago, i went to a fair and was walking around with a 4 set because everyone else was walking with their couple. I was doing pretty good with the 4 set as we were all arm in arm. however, i wasnt doing much talking because all the girls were talking and talking. so, how do you handle a big set like that? i know you should be the center of attention and fun but its kind of hard once your in that situation already. I wish i had taken more control of the set. the attraction was there its just i didn't take the actions required to advance into a higher place. so how do you handle a big set?

Also, how do you respond when being called a player by the girls themselves and other guys too. like i was walking around and a guy i knew was like, "what a player!" when he saw me. how do you respond? also, how do you respond to a girl telling you, " wow look at you, 4 girls on you, your a pimp."?

Thanks for the advice guys.

[Nick]

I do agree that you probably should've been more in control of them. However it probably is kind of hard. Point out random observations or anything that really stands out to get their attention back to you and what you say.

Also, I would just say "Thanks" in a really cocky/blow-it-off kind off way. It's usually a funny response. Make a slight face too. I can't really describe it.

[SamethP]

Dude, if they're talking and you have no idea what they're on about, change the subject to something that you can all talk about, that way you're not left out and don't look like their whipping boy lol.

In terms of people calling you a pimp/player whatever, I just turn around with a cocky smirk, pull the girls in closer and say "Jealous? "

They will have nothing to say to that, and if they do it will be like "yeah right!" which just DLVs them to the chicks and makes you look like a rockstar. The girls will play along and may even start cuddling you on the spot to really rub it in xD it's all fun

[perceverance]

i LOVE the "jealous?" idea that you mentioned, what if the girls dont play along though? then your fucked :\