subfusion
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Post by subfusion on Oct 17, 2010 1:22:05 GMT -5
All right guys, so I'm a little new to the whole PUA scene, etc.
I've been wanting to talk to this one girl, but I kinda chickened out a few times, so I asked her an opener online:
"I think you're pretty, but what do you have going for you besides your looks?"
It didn't really go well, and she replied saying that the question was offensive/rude, and that she liked the compliment, but the way I asked was strange.
So here's my question:
What should I do now? I'm basically at a loss of what to do, but I'm thinking I should talk to her in person (but what should I say?).
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SamethP
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Post by SamethP on Oct 18, 2010 20:08:26 GMT -5
you mean you used that opener online? o.O and honestly, i wouldn't have used that as an opener... it's much more of a line that makes her qualify to you, so you needed to have built rapport with some C&F first. but not to worry, at least she knows who you are now You need to go talk to her at school. That is a necessity, if you don't, you're just that guy who can only string sentences together online lol. What should you say? I don't know, there's no magic line, just get to know her, make her comfortable around you, use kino (touch her arms/shoulder when you talk), you could probably get it to the hug hello and goodbye in one meeting if you're confident and relaxed
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