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Post by igotwheelz on Oct 20, 2010 16:44:43 GMT -5
alright well i couldnt find this anywhere else (didnt look to hard sorry if it is) are there any signs that she is interested and youve built up enough attraction. Ive found that  and  more often when texting but thats all ive got so anyone got other signs. and is it a good move to tell her you like her and ask if she likes you? |
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Post by SamethP on Oct 20, 2010 16:57:35 GMT -5
Indicators of Interest (IOIs). The smiley faces are an IOI. If this is your ex that we're talking about, then her waiting at your locker is an IOI. Get enough of those and you're on easy street  Don't tell her lol. Let her tell you that she likes you again |
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Post by Nick on Oct 20, 2010 17:10:33 GMT -5
OMG. NOOO. Don't EVER tell her you like her until both of you are ready to commit and you both know it. Maybe not even then. With women, they automatically assume that you like them if you spend time with them. That's why you have to tease them a lot and send mixed signals... it keeps women on their toes. Indicators of Interest are how you tell if they like you. If they go out of their way for you that's a big IOI. If you think a girl likes you, she probably does... I always assume attraction anyway  |
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Post by igotwheelz on Oct 20, 2010 17:37:49 GMT -5
aight what r some common IOIs |
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Post by Nick on Oct 20, 2010 17:51:19 GMT -5
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Post by igotwheelz on Oct 20, 2010 18:02:39 GMT -5
does there have to be multiple or just one IOI? |
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Post by Nick on Oct 20, 2010 18:06:24 GMT -5
There's no set in stone number of IOIs to tell when a girl likes you. To be honest, I think infatuations and "crushes" are fake...
If a girl is showing IOIs then she has attraction towards you. The more you get, the more she is attracted to you... Pretty much that simple.
The only real IOI amount significance is when you just met a girl, you two are mostly alone, and she gives you 3 IOIs. It's common belief that 3 IOIs means if you go for a kiss then she will accept...
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Post by igotwheelz on Oct 20, 2010 18:24:55 GMT -5
what if shes really flirty and shoes 3 with A LOT of guys?
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Post by SamethP on Oct 21, 2010 6:25:41 GMT -5
then you need to mark your territory, youre the alpha |
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Post by Cobra on Oct 31, 2010 23:57:01 GMT -5
To answer the second part of your question, I'd suggest that if you're getting a decent amount IOI's, skip telling her that you like her and just SHOW her that you like her. Just gradually increase the kino and make a damn move! ASSUME that she likes you, because you're the fucking man, and she knows it.
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Post by Johnny Bravo on Nov 3, 2010 20:38:15 GMT -5
To answer the second part of your question, I'd suggest that if you're getting a decent amount IOI's, skip telling her that you like her and just SHOW her that you like her. Just gradually increase the kino and make a damn move! ASSUME that she likes you, because you're the fucking man, and she knows it. |
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more often when texting but thats all ive got so anyone got other signs. and is it a good move to tell her you like her and ask if she likes you?
