What To Do When The Ladies Get Mad

[Kev]

So this girl got mad at me for something that wasnt that serious and she tolde me that i was a ''F-ing fake" all i told her was that she cant have me. i sent her a message but shes yet to reply but i only sent her one because i dont want to be 'annoying'. What do you think i should do ?

[jainarihant]

Damn that's a tricky situation. What did you sent her?

You probably misread her signals and maybe took teasing a bit too far or you were a bit too arrogant? Anyway next time you tease or banter like that make sure she doesn't know wheter your serious or not, so have a grin on your face.

If it was online just put a smiley after it so she knows you weren't too serious. Problem with online game, chatting in my opinion is that sometimes girls interpret things wrong.

Now you have to do is some damage control, tell her you were joking or something.

[extra]

If you did something mean/wrong, apologize. Or if not stick to your guns.

I'll tell you from personal experience that, as long as you resolve any real problem (NOT you being an asshole in one instance, a real problem is like losing trust/love/attraction stuff like that) you should stick to your guns. Story of my life that relationship arguements go badly if i really try to explain and argue, while if i just stick to the frame of mind that i didn't do anything wrong and she needs to get over it she comes back to me more loving than ever.

tl;dr depending on situation, "Sorry, that was a little too far and I realize that, and apologize. You needa get over it though, it isn't a big deal" or "Tough up girl, you're calling me fake and all this stuff and say that i'm rude/obnoxious/etc?"

As long as you maintain your position as the man in the relationship and stay true to yourself you'll be good.

[Cobra]

Well, if you want this chick, it sounds like she's pretty attracted to you already. So, I'd just give an apology and tell her I was just playing around. Resume game from there.