Can you guys help me analyse this?

[Slick]

Hey guys, I am just trying to analyze how I did in this conversation so if you could read it and help me out, that'd be great. This is the same girl as the one I talked about in this post

Today
[You]
7:42pm
<her name with last letters extended>
[Her]
7:43pm
kevinnn
[You]
7:44pm
whats up?
[Her]
7:45pm
homework
and music
you?
[You]
7:46pm
just trying to stay awake while watching jersey shore
[ Her]
7:46pm
it's only 7:45, why the struggle to stay awake?
[You]
7:47pm
i had to wake up early today to go to the orthodontist
[Her]
7:49pm
that sucks
is that why you missed history?
[You]
7:49pm
yup
just one week left of these braces
[Her]
7:50pm
woow so soon
i can't imagine you without braces
[You]
7:51pm
well you've never seen me without them
[Her]
7:52pm
true, but i can't think of it at all
[You]
7:53pm
just imagine me but like infinitely sexier
[Her]
7:53pm
...
nope
can't picture it
[You]
7:54pm
yeah that was a bad analogy, I can't really get any sexier
[Her]
7:55pm
of course kevin
youre just the epitome of sexy.
[You]
7:56pm
pfft, you know you love me (based on Johnny Bravo's "3 Steps to Love" post)
[Her]
7:56pm
never denied that
but we all know i am the sexier one here.
[You]
7:59pm
nah you don't deserve me
[Her]
7:59pm
i know...
i deserve better
hehe
[You]
8:02pm
baby, im the best you'll never have
[Her]
8:02pm
oooohhhhh
that hurt my feelings
[You]
8:05pm
i like your sarcasm, but we'll never work out because im sarcastic too (attempt at push-pull)
[Her]
8:06pm
probably true
id sarcastic the shit out of you
if that makes sense
[You]
8:07pm
we'd just be throwing so much sarcasm around, the world couldn't comprehend it. we'd have fun though (bad move)
[Her]
8:08pm
lol of course (losing interest?)
so what is new with you? (changing subject, iod?)
[You]
8:10pm
I would love to tell you, except I should be going eat cake to celebrate my sisters birthday
talk to you later <3
[Her]
8:11pm
mm cake
ttyl

[Nick]

You're way too analytical... And you're not even that bad.

The conversation was actually pretty good. You kinda forced the "you love me" part though... try to turn the conversation a little more sexual next time

I don't think she really lost interest or she wouldn't have added on. Other than that, I liked it.

Just have fun and don't worry too much about what you should say next and analyzing everything she says.

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

I disagree completly with bolt although it's true you are waaayyy to analytical, You were barely good to her and you where a bit off a dick (I know you meant well thoug )

here are some nicer responses:
"of course Kevin you're just the epitome of sexy"
better response: "Thanks "

(shows you don't get her sarcasm witch is fun for her and that you took a compliment so it's normal for you)

however you're answer led to a very nice peice of fun:
never denied it, but we all know I am the sexier one here"
better answer: uhuh
(uhuh is such a uninviting response it almost hides what you wanted to say she doesn't know if you're sarcastic or not)

"lol of course"
"what's new with you"
thats not an IOD it's a conversation starter

[Lego]

Reminds me so much of myself a while back, i used to analyze conversations like crazy too, and it's just not helping you man. I'm not saying you shouldn't pay attention to your mistakes and such, the ability to spot your own mistakes and learning from them is the best thing you can do.

But the thing is, you should just stop worrying about wether you "did good" or "did bad" in a conversation after the conversation is over, what's done is done, and, trust me when i say this, NOTHING good can come from thinking and analyzing what you could have done better or how you could have avoided this or that. I have been down this road so many times.

Instead just keep your mind in the moment, focus on how you are doing with this girl right now, and just keep advancing from there. Especially when it seems like a conversation "went bad" or something like that, just don't take it as a setback and it won't be one.

To answer your question in your other thread "Should i still go for it?" Of course you should, the fact that you are thinking about this only shows that this girl has managed to put your mind to start worrying about rejection, and taken your focus away from your goal. The worst thing is, analyzing and thinking too much will eventually make you stop advancing because you're worried about rejection.

To put it simple, don't analyze so much that you find yourself rejecting yourself before she even gets a chance to.