hyperfulltwist
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Registered: Oct 2, 2010 20:37:56 GMT -5
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Post by hyperfulltwist on Oct 28, 2010 5:13:42 GMT -5
Ok, so I've definitely seen big changes in myself in the past weeks. One month ago, I wouldn't have been able to ask a girl in my class what was for homework; now, however, I'm able to approach HB's in the mall that I've never met before. I'm still working on approaching sets, though - I have no idea how to continue a conversation with them.
Anyway, I've gone off topic ; ) Okay, so there's this girl that's been in my class for the the past two years, and I'm guessing she's seen a lot of the stuff that I've done in the past, like being a massive asshole and antisocial and whatnot. I'm a changed guy, but when I talk to her, she is generally just not interested in me. I try to continue a conversation, but she just does these two-word replies and looks around :S
The girl is a bit shy, but I see her trying to talk to other guys, and yet with me she seems to just be sending massive IOD's
So is there anyway to get her more interested in me?
P.S. I don't have oneitis or some shit like that; I'm just interested in her. XD
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Johnny Bravo
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Post by Johnny Bravo on Nov 3, 2010 20:39:39 GMT -5
Either show her you have changed by befriending one of her friends, or.... drop her.
"Best way to change a girl isnt with logic, but with emotions"
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Post by scripts on Nov 22, 2010 19:57:13 GMT -5
One of the ways I've been able to pull this off is by flirting with a lot of other girls while she is around. She gets jealous and wants to learn about you. I've learned that if you only have one choice, the girl will not like you because she's your only choice. However, if you flirt with multiple girls, people will take notice.
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Traxx
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Registered: Mar 14, 2010 21:36:28 GMT -5
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Post by Traxx on Nov 23, 2010 1:35:31 GMT -5
You're reversing the mentality here. She's the one that is supposed to be winning you, not the other way around. If she isn't flowing with you, then just show that she doesn't matter if she's not willing to have fun. Flirt with other girls and gain a better rep before you go out and try to change one individual's mind, because in the long run, there will be better results with multiple people that you have fun with (possibly including that girl) than with that one girl that you try to impress.
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