To keep a Girlfriend or not..

[Validus]

I'll start by saying, I have a girlfriend at the moment.
It's been going pretty good for the last couple weeks since I asked her out, plenty of sex, few issues here and there... At the moment I'm waiting to find out if the ECP worked, which has been a stressful motherfucker.

Good things about girlfriends,
'solid relationship', can get action pretty much whenever I want, shes hot, mom likes me, I like her, it's all good.

Bad things:
Stress - issues seem to randomly pop up, drama and other bullshit starts when it has NOT even ONE reason to.. Always use a fucking condom guys.. One time she convinced me not too = .. She might be preg.. Which will be delt with, but it's not the point..

It's in danger of becoming a sex based relationship.. every day we've hung out sense we started dating = sex pretty much..

Cheating becomes a possibility... I was recently at a party where there was 3 girls all 8.5-9.5 I could have gotten for sure, but my buddy and conscious (drunk as it was) except me from doing that.. I like being free, which having a girlfriend does not really cater too.

What are your thoughts on this ?

[bravo]

If your a dating a "hot" girl who gives you plenty of sex and lets you fuck her without a condom, and you see "9.5"s at a party that you are "SURE" you can get........you must be lying or your pretty damn good looking. Those are my thoughts.

[Ari Gold]

^
Probably tooting your own horn. But hey. Who's to judge.

Restrain yourself, keep your fuckin' schlong in your pants brother. Fuck your girlfriend. I don't know why the fuck you wouldn't, logically, keep her. You fuck her often. You like each other. It's working.

Drama is a part of life; it follows you from playground to workplace to your fuckin' neighborhood. People like to start shit. Become an expert of handling people.

[Validus]

Bravo,

If you've ever been with a very sexual / horny girl that wanted to have sex,
you'd have probably had her beg you too do it without a condom.
Also, If this site was about helping people just become good looking, then that would defeat the purpose of 99.9% of the info posted here, wouldn't it. ?



Ari, good point. I'm going to let it keep going, it's just dangerous... I'm pretty pissed about the fact I fucked her that one time without a condom.. Never did that before with a girl, and it fucked over bad.. Still waiting to know if it worked.. Don't need that kind of stress right now :/

[extra]

As long as you pulled out, don't worry about it wallz... it can be anxious when you first do it, but I never use a condom with my amiga and haven't in a long long time, with her being off bc for most of it. Noproblemos just be careful where you the mess gets.

Also dealing with a similar thing, thought it's getting back together... there's no better girl for me at this point, but at the same time I really want to keep my options open yaknow.

[kamrald]

In my opinion Keep a girlfriend is a good idea because girl friends help you with your friends, they seriously cares about you. Especially in cases that meet the tasks and more books in record, you can sneak out of Gossip Girl and show your friends. Seriously, if you ever manage to crack a few secrets about a young girl on girl, you would be considered a witch among your friends who are always looking for something interesting.

[rakoon]

well if she is hot then why not? if lots of sex then why not?
stop asking us dumb questions and go to her place right away!

its realy up to you..if you like her for what she is beside the sex part than realy keep her.
if you like her only for the sex, well keep having sex but when another occasion sparks just go for it

[canadiankid]

^because he's not afc and so he's not worried about getting pussy. Thus he has sex frequently. And everyone is always tempted by the "forbidden fruit" to make that analogy.

[amarok]

I just need to say this to extra: You're a fucking moron. The pull out doesn't do shit. You should have learned that in middle school, if not high school too. There's still pre ejaculatory fluid that has sperm in it and it goes against instinct to pull out when you're about to ejaculate, so not everyone can pull out in time.

Don't risk not using a condom, anyone who says otherwise is retarded -__-

[extra]

I'm really not a moron, the fact is in my experience and that of everyone I have met pull out works fine (for preventing babies). That said, use condoms if STDs could be a possibility or the girl wants to use one.

loling at your instincts remark. Have sex and get back to me champ.

[RMO]

This is exactly where I am as far as the pros/cons except Im in danger of becoming too close to friends.

Ive made out, and fingered her, and shes given me a BJ, but its beginning to turn away from sex and go towards just drama bullshit.

The trick is to keep the two sides, communication and sex, in balance. God I miss girls with bitch shields. at least they have some confidence.

[frankcrown]

I am truly ROFLOL about this guy. I listened to the aboriginal 9 account again I fast advanced to 13 and he was still traveling on with his "I adulation you so much, your my one and alone i am annihilation after you.

[Andrew]

you guys think too much. If you're happy with your girlfriend then be happy with your girlfriend. If you're unhappy with your girlfriend then fix it or move on. If you're happy being single then be single.

It really only boils down to whether or not you're happy in your situation.