Post by Grape on Oct 30, 2008 16:32:30 GMT -5
I'll constantly be editing this, adding more onto it, for it shall be my ultimate flirting thread.
The Three I's
Intelligence
We live in a society where people are constantly judging one another and their intelligences. Now I don't mean just "school smart" but rather things like: social smart, music smart, personality smart, street smart, etc.
Some words you can use to banter are:
for their "attractive" behaviors:
Cute, Adorable, Childish, Witty, Funny, Brilliant, Amazing,
for their "unattractive" behaviors:
Stupid, Gay, Dumb, Dork, Immature, Selfish, Shy, Suck, Loser,
Notice how these terms are very vague and are left for the target's imagination to amplify/alter/distort.
Commenting on others' intelligences won't only make you seem higher value, but as a qualifier and a judge.
Just remember, only comment when it seems to make sense. Saying "You're selfish." out of nowhere and not being able to back yourself up with a reason will make you seem try-hard and attention seeking.
Intention
Everyone has an intent to do something.
You can use this do your advantage. When someone does something, you can 'reframe' their action as having an unattractive intention behind it.
ex: A girl says "You have ugly shoes." You can reframe the situation as if they had an intent to give YOU the upper hand by saying something such as "They always DID remind me of you."
Also, you need to have intent/reason behind your actions. If you go into a set not knowing what it is you want with them, you will fail.
Your subconscious mind needs a goal to achieve, it's just the nature of the male mind. Going in with intentions of picking girls up will help a ton, as where going in with intentions to 'impress' them by being a 'nice guy' will not help.
Intimacy
The thing about intimacy, sexuality, and seduction with females is that they are VERY VERY sexual. Any girl who says otherwise is either socially 'unaware' or just a rare type.
Here are a few concepts of this theory:
- All females are very open to sexuality. As long as they don't feel like sluts, they will comply accordingly.
- The 'slut effect' takes place when a guy gives the girl the decision of sex and sexual activities.
- A guy must take blame and responsibility for all sexual actions done with a girl.
:::Applying the concept:::
Screen words: Screen words are terms we use that don't sound sexual at ALL, but are often interpreted in sexual ways. Using these will not only let a girl be able to be sexual with you while still saying "No we weren't! We were just talking about baking together." but will also enable you to imply to a girl that you have intentions of being sexual. You may say something like "Come over. We can watch movies in my room and bake cookies."
What are some screen words?
"We can bake cookies/cream pies/cakes together."
"Come in my closet/under my blanket/in my room with me."
"We can color together."
"And we'll stay up until three in the morning."
"We'll watch movies together."
"We're going to have a pillow fight."
"I'm going to wrestle you down."
Taking blame: When you and a girl are alone together, and she says something like "We're going too fast."
You can do one of two things to turn off her LMR:
- Not escalate any further by being submissive or too aggressive
- Be a man and take responsibility for her actions
If you simply say "It's okay, I'll take the blame." or "Hey, I understand. It's my responsibility, not yours." she'll continue to escalate as long as she still feels comfortable with you.
I hope this helps out!
<33 Grape
The Three I's
Intelligence
We live in a society where people are constantly judging one another and their intelligences. Now I don't mean just "school smart" but rather things like: social smart, music smart, personality smart, street smart, etc.
Some words you can use to banter are:
for their "attractive" behaviors:
Cute, Adorable, Childish, Witty, Funny, Brilliant, Amazing,
for their "unattractive" behaviors:
Stupid, Gay, Dumb, Dork, Immature, Selfish, Shy, Suck, Loser,
Notice how these terms are very vague and are left for the target's imagination to amplify/alter/distort.
Commenting on others' intelligences won't only make you seem higher value, but as a qualifier and a judge.
Just remember, only comment when it seems to make sense. Saying "You're selfish." out of nowhere and not being able to back yourself up with a reason will make you seem try-hard and attention seeking.
Intention
Everyone has an intent to do something.
You can use this do your advantage. When someone does something, you can 'reframe' their action as having an unattractive intention behind it.
ex: A girl says "You have ugly shoes." You can reframe the situation as if they had an intent to give YOU the upper hand by saying something such as "They always DID remind me of you."
Also, you need to have intent/reason behind your actions. If you go into a set not knowing what it is you want with them, you will fail.
Your subconscious mind needs a goal to achieve, it's just the nature of the male mind. Going in with intentions of picking girls up will help a ton, as where going in with intentions to 'impress' them by being a 'nice guy' will not help.
Intimacy
The thing about intimacy, sexuality, and seduction with females is that they are VERY VERY sexual. Any girl who says otherwise is either socially 'unaware' or just a rare type.
Here are a few concepts of this theory:
- All females are very open to sexuality. As long as they don't feel like sluts, they will comply accordingly.
- The 'slut effect' takes place when a guy gives the girl the decision of sex and sexual activities.
- A guy must take blame and responsibility for all sexual actions done with a girl.
:::Applying the concept:::
Screen words: Screen words are terms we use that don't sound sexual at ALL, but are often interpreted in sexual ways. Using these will not only let a girl be able to be sexual with you while still saying "No we weren't! We were just talking about baking together." but will also enable you to imply to a girl that you have intentions of being sexual. You may say something like "Come over. We can watch movies in my room and bake cookies."
What are some screen words?
"We can bake cookies/cream pies/cakes together."
"Come in my closet/under my blanket/in my room with me."
"We can color together."
"And we'll stay up until three in the morning."
"We'll watch movies together."
"We're going to have a pillow fight."
"I'm going to wrestle you down."
Taking blame: When you and a girl are alone together, and she says something like "We're going too fast."
You can do one of two things to turn off her LMR:
- Not escalate any further by being submissive or too aggressive
- Be a man and take responsibility for her actions
If you simply say "It's okay, I'll take the blame." or "Hey, I understand. It's my responsibility, not yours." she'll continue to escalate as long as she still feels comfortable with you.
I hope this helps out!
<33 Grape
