Thing-->Relationship

[mims277]

I asked a girl out she said we didn't talk about how often we'll see each other, parents, we didn't have a thing... So I told her we'll have a thing. She tells me later on she doesn't want a relationship, I do but I'm not letting her know so she doesn't have that control over me.

How do I get her to agree to\want a relationship though?

[RMO]

could you rephrase that so it makes sense?

[mims277]

Oh, thing meaning basically meaning friends with benefits. This girl doesn't want a relationship, but wants to be friends with benefits. My response was for now we are where we are (friends with benefits) and lets see where that takes us.

But deep down inside I want a relationship (because I haven't had one in a while). How do I pull it off without seeming needy while still portraying my attractive image?

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

Nov 17, 2010 11:45:03 GMT -5 @mims277 said:

Oh, thing meaning basically meaning friends with benefits. This girl doesn't want a relationship, but wants to be friends with benefits. My response was for now we are where we are (friends with benefits) and lets see where that takes us.

But deep down inside I want a relationship (because I haven't had one in a while). How do I pull it off without seeming needy while still portraying my attractive image?

Don't freak out, become more unavailable but you don't want her to think you're punishing her or anything, be that same cool guy you always are when you're with her, but be there less.

[slyman]

Hook up with her for a while, use game, and she'll want a relationship. She'd be attracted to you ---> relationship if you want one. Boyfriend her...look around this board ( I think theres some stuff) if not google search it. Your hookups will slowly turn into a relationship.