This dude screwed up bad

[slyman]

Hey guys, here's the epitome of a value seeking, needy, AFC. I'm wondering how I can take advantage of this....

So this current HB 8 (year + half ago she was about a 6 haha) is going out with this idiot and has been for about a year and a half (started when she was a 6...). And this guy made a total fool of himself and humiliated HB8 in front of the entire school (she was crying for about an hour after school with her best friend apparently). So he was with a group of about 6 guys in a dorm playing COD. The group he was chilling with was a pretty high value group, almost all of them had had sex before. They start shitting on him for going out with HB8 for over a year and a half and not having sex yet... so being the AFC and value seeker he is, he lies and says that he did last weekend. Obviously, word gets out, and HB8 finds out. She is devastated. Lying about having sex (HB8 is a virgin) too seem cool = AFC. HB8 hasn't broken up with him yet, but I don't see this lasting another week. How this pertains to me:She is an HB8, and we have hooked up in the past...i would like to again She is very sad now, so I really don't wanna use any boyfriend destroyers on him...he has pretty much destroyed himself. She's clearly in a really fragile state. Although we haven't hung out or talked much this year, I believe she has always been attracted to me, and I've always been attracted to her. She's dope, and I want her, and she needs me and not this fool. But I don't want to head in too aggressively as she's very sad right now. How should I play this?

Thanks

Slyman


p.s - this girl's dope and has to be mine, so she's really my #1 target right now, so I really don't wanna "sarge girls in the meantime." I've been doing that for over a year now. I actually started getting into PUA when this fool asked her out...I was about to a week later. Call it One-it-is, whatever you want, I just love hanging out w/ her and in my recent found success of PUA I can't say that any of my current sarges would be better than being in a relationship with this girl.

[slyman]

nothing guys? come on now...

[jester]

Just game her normally. Escalation is key for girls with bfs. Probably the hardest barrier to break would be the k close. I would suggest just trying to Hang with this girl and do what you do.

[RMO]

This is exactly my situation man, be sure to escalate and dont take no ( not sex, i mean the LJBF zone) for an answer. Dont change her but find out what makes her feel the best. Dont convince her logically, convince her with emotions. If have any updates let me know, I'm interested to see how this turns out.

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

for future reference say this when a girl has a boyfriend(it's direct, effective, callibrated and sexy): "hey if you and you're boyfriend ever break up, I would love to take you out sometime." this works, feild tested and approved

- p.s. i got it from the wing girls xD

[slyman]

thanks guys. So we got out of school today for thanksgiving break, and i didn't see her either today or yesterday. So I'll start this up on next tuesday when we get back, as I really don't wanna text her/ichat/fb to initiate this, as prodigy says get her through emotions, not logically, and its tough to get emotions done via online game. I like that idea luis, normally i would say that's AFC, but it definitely shows lots of confidence as any direct approach would.

Here's a potential obstacle that could harm gaming girls with boyfriends (come to think of it i've never gotten with a girl who had a boyfriend at the time, so this is hypothetical, and not spoken from experience). I feel like it may be difficult not to fall in the trap of qualifying yourself to her, as she already has a boyfriend, a bad mindset that i could fall into is thinking that I must show her that I'm better than her boyfriend. which of course, I am, but that could come out in an AFC way. Not saying it will or even asking how to prevent this, but just typing it out helps me keep this idea in my head, and hopefully you guys will see what I'm saying and it could benefit you as well.


grrr but everytime I see her online I feel the AFC urge to directly confront her about her situation....I'm not ruling this out in real life by any means, but I think it would be a DLV if I brought it up over ichat instead of real life. i gotta keep myself preocupied this vacation

thanks for the input guys, i'll keep you updated. Prodigy, whats your situation thats similair to this and how are you playing it out? I'd love to hear. Thanks man.


-slyman

[RMO]

welll.... Here i go

Alright so my girl, lets call her rachel, is a sophmore, im a senior. Normally we wouldn't have classes together but thanks to Drama we happen to see each other. I honestly didn't notice her for a good few weeks. I might have heard her name, or seen her, but nothing really stuck. Its not like she wasn't attractive, but I had the 'plenty' attitude and it just never occurred to me. One day she sits down next to me and we talk. For a few weeks we just hang and talk, I do whatever I want and have fun so I am overtly sexual to pretty much everyone. About a month ago I began to pick up on Rachel's IOI's.

The thing is that the relationship dynamic was completely reversed because she was with her boyfriend and homecoming. I think highschool dating is bullshit, but I respect the people who use it, and i have a nasty habit of breaking people up. Well she is trying to seduce me? seduce is to strong, trying to pick me up. Shes doing everything like a guy in the relationship and it was really throwing me off. I could just look at her and smirk and she would be all over me.

We've hung out a few times since the realization, and she txts me a shit ton, I am usually just sexual but not focused at her unless im in person. Her boyfriend is a special kind of crazy and hes making her miserable, she actually broke out crying and sobbed on me for a good 20 min in front of a a few people. Shes always initiating kino and quite frankly I'm fed up with her playing both sides of the field, Im just going to take her and make her mine because all this drama is freaking annoying. My schools closed for the week because of freezing rain and thanksgiving so in the meantime well txt to keep the heat there and I'll see what happens next Monday.

[slyman]

nice dude, true at this point just get her. mines a sophomore also and I'm a junior. good luck dude.

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

ok, slyman here is what you should do: tell her what I told you. then walk away, don't expect anything, don't initiate, still be nice when she talks to you just be less available and go game other girls man. give it time, let it be.

[slyman]

thats badass. I'm totally trying that next week. I'll let you know how it goes.