Im pissed off

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Lately i've been noticing a great increase in the amount of people who know about the art of pickup and seducing women. This irritates me because it is no longer an advantage i have to get girls. (im not the best looking guy around...) so most of the better looking guys with knowledge of pickup have MUCH more of an advantage over us less good looking guys. I am beggining to think this pickup community is not that effective to get girls.

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BuMp

[RMO]

Your ego just posted an article dude. The reason is those guys know that they are hot, so their confidence skyrockets. Thats it.

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come on man, im trying to use my logic, your telling me if a girl has a choice between a average looking guy with alot of confidence and a hot guy with alot of confidence, shes gonna pick the average looking guy?

[Shampoo]

I dont know if you know Drew Brees or watch any football but Drew Brees is short for a Quarterback. A Quarterback is the leader of the football team and is counted on. He is short. Short people cant play quarterback according to logic because he has a low center of gravity and he cant see over his own linemen. People thought he would not get drafted because of his height. He did.

Then the "Experts" said he had no accuracy compared to the great quarterback who are 6"5 and better than him. He practiced and he became the deadliest quarterback in the league. He then had a career ending shoulder injury. Google it. His shoulder was literally out of place and it looked awful. People thought he could NEVER play the same again.

He got surgery but no teams wanted him. Except for the Saints. They signed him and he soon went off and became the most accurate Quarterback in the league. Peyton Manning is my favorite but Brees is far more accurate. So he surpassed probably the best Quarterback of all time in terms of accuracy. He the soon became the face of New Orleans and hurricane Katrina and won the Super Bowl that only a few Quarterbacks do. Qbs who win the Super Bowl, win a ticket to the Hall of Fame.

He went from the shortest Qb who could do nothing and was bad compared to others, to a Future Hall of Famer. Did he complain? Probably, but not like this. He didnt quit either which you seem to be doing. Man up, logic is only good for Philosophy and Math.

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i appreciate what your saying man, but drew bree's is simply a beast. im a very realist person, i have no problem accepting reality and the truth is, i see the pictures on facebook of the hot chicks with: the hot guys. never do i see the hot chicks with: the nerds. im not saying that i have given up on pickup, because i have also experienced moments when a fairly hot chick was semi-into me because i had taken the correct steps at the correct times. im not a nerd, but then again, im not a complete hot guy. i wish to become a complete apha male but im simply not there, i realize that it is a process and that you must fail to succeed but man, this is an extremely rough road.

[RMO]

Nov 21, 2010 15:41:46 GMT -5 perceverance said:

come on man, im trying to use my logic, your telling me if a girl has a choice between a average looking guy with alot of confidence and a hot guy with alot of confidence, shes gonna pick the average looking guy?

i have also experienced moments when a fairly hot chick was semi-into me because i had taken the correct steps at the correct times. im not a nerd, but then again, im not a complete hot guy. i wish to become a complete apha male but im simply not there, i realize that it is a process and that you must fail to succeed but man, this is an extremely rough road.

Well quite frankly I am going to say that your issue is congruence. I am fairly attractive if I take of myself, sort of like edward norton or justin theorux depending on how I cut my hair, but i didn't do good with chicks unless I was confident. Looks for girls arent that important if you truly are a badass. Take people like weeman, midgets, and they have enough confidence that they get laid all the time. Their not genetically perfect, but they get sex.

HERES THE MYTH
HOT GIRLS ONLY FUCK ATTRACTIVE GUYS

HERES THE TRUTH
HOT GIRLS HAVE BEEN TO FUCK UGLY GUYS ON MORE THAN ONE OCCASION

Fail to succeed? no, knowing that you can fail is all that there is. ITs not the 'right' things at the right times, its being a capital badass all the time. It is a state of being, not a goal.

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What do you mean by congruence? congruence refers to something that is equal. i do take care of myself but even then, most people take care of themselves. as for being a badass, is there a diffrence between being badass and being an asshole? or is being badass simply not being afraid of things, taking initiative, not caring what others think, etc.. and what do you mean by being a 'capital' badass?

[RMO]

capital badass, alpha male, cool guy all synonyms. Who cares if your an asshole? at least your fun.

If you do the right things at the right time, you appear as an alpha male, but if your arent internally an alpha, than your outer persona and inner persona are not equal, and the girl can tell that.

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so the key to fixing this would be to become a true alpha(internally as well as externally)?

[RMO]

in short... yes

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im going to be reading the ebooks that you recommended and applying all that i learn to my social and individual life. do you think i might be able to accomplish it this way?