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Post by mims277 on Nov 30, 2010 7:18:56 GMT -5
You guys know when you have a girl want you, but you subconsciously mess it up? It used to be this girl would always want to hang with me. Ever since then I started showing signs of neediness and less C+F.
Example: Before: Her: "When's the next time I'm gonna see you?" me: "Hopefully never"
Now its me asking when is the next time I'm gonna see her, and I think she lost attraction. What do I do?
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Post by scripts on Nov 30, 2010 7:22:27 GMT -5
Push-Pull, this happened to me before and I just started ignoring the girls. Now they want me lol. Good luck.
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Post by mims277 on Nov 30, 2010 8:10:26 GMT -5
Can you clarify a little bit?
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Post by scripts on Nov 30, 2010 16:59:54 GMT -5
By stopping the conversations like you want her bad or something like that (indirectly), you leave her to think of you a lot. By making her think about you a lot, she will want you. Personally, I started flirting with other girls in front of her and she became jealous and started liking me again (that was one case with a good HB10). If she seems like she doesn't care, keep at it and find another HB. If she doesn't like you like that any more, I don't see a reason to start a relationship with her any more.
Another PoV I could see is that you were put into the LJBF zone and in that case, you could use her to talk about other girls and find out if they like you.
How long have you been using C+F with her?
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Post by mims277 on Dec 1, 2010 10:06:27 GMT -5
2 months
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Post by scripts on Dec 1, 2010 16:49:42 GMT -5
Sorry man, if you haven't asked her out within about two weeks and haven't kissed her, chances are that you have been LJBFed. This has happened to me in a couple of occasions. Just move on is all I can say.
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