Getting out of the friend zone

[scooba518]

So I have known this girl for a long time (all of high school). She is my go to person for stuff regarding questions about girls. Basically she was my PUA forum before i found this. She doesn't go to my school. I see her at my youth group events. I'm a senior now and junior year i didn't see her much, barely any and we drifted. Now I have been talking to her a bit more and am sort of back in with her. She broke up with her boyfriend a month ago because he went off to college and she didn't want to be in a long distance relationship for 5 years. She had been with him for over a year. I want to take this oppurtunity to get with her because I have always had a thing for her, but freshman and sophomore year, I was a dork and not really her type. Junior year we drifted. Now I'm cooler and better looking. How do I game her?

[matt66]

Use Grape's bestfriend-boyfriend method, but since you're already at the best friend stage then you can work from there. Remember to transfer that comfort she has for you into attraction. Good luck man!

[jester]

There was a post about this. You freeze out and then "unintentionally" DHV her. If I knew what it was called I post the link

[perceverance]

What's a freeze out

[canadiankid]

Read "the game", the freeze out is best described in there and it's a great read.

[fullbang]

in short, freeze out means ignoring her for a while, making her wanting you

[canadiankid]

That's the short of it but using it in a way that builds attraction is not quite that simple, it has to be used in a congruent and effective manner