Post by terabate on Dec 25, 2010 13:49:20 GMT -5
Ive dated my first gf for 2 months, she basically controlled the relationship and she knew she was my first gf. She was still attracted bc i had so much social proof; i have tons of friends and know almost everyone she knows as the school. She would always pull shit on me to make me jealous, and do things like avoid eye contact when we talked and change the subject in the middle of a deep conversation. Every time i called her out on it, she would say she just needs time to open up.We had sex 2 weeks in, but last week i got tired of being controlled and broke up with her. She then started hitting hard on my best friend who is kinda the cool guy amog. Hes cool so we played her games back, we pretended that he was pissed at me, and we could fake it bc it was christmas break. Once they had trust built, she spilled all this shit to him, and told him he was a sweet guy she could open up to. Then it went really hellish 5 days later, she started txting me saying she was sorry and we could still be friends and to call her tonight to talk about what happened. So im like hmm ok, i call her and she says stuff like" it sucks that you broke up with me i was gonna tell you something but it doesn't matter now", and i said "what was it?" and she said" i was gonna tell you that i was falling for you and i wanted to introduce you to my parents." She said all these things that made me think twice about ending it. we ended up talking tell 2am and said we will finish working things out tommorrow, she said "good night baby =)".
We were going to meet up the next day at 5pm, i was hanging out with 4 friends at the mall. My amog friend said "your a dumb ass for trying to get back together so quick" He said" i wasn't gonna say anything but you need to open your eyes." He showed me a txt from earlier that morning from my ex saying "come over tonight i wanna see you. "I was like wtf, so we play along, he sends "ok but i don't want george to hang with us, "she sends "oh not a problem =)", at this point im really flipping out. he sends "what do you want to do? "and she sent "anything you want
". and he sent, "are you getting back with george?" and she sent "nah we are better off friends after the break up =)". she sent "come at 7 "bc she knew i would be gone by then. I pretend like idk anything and go to her house that night at 5 and she says" i dont think we should get back together", and i said" neither do i "and shes smiling and im thinking in my head manipulative lieing bitch. On my way out shes like "arent you gonna give me a hug =)?" and im like "no" and left. She then sends my friend all this shit like "come tonight i wanna see you =)". and after that sends me" i wanted to work things out tonight but you were in a rush to leave so i didn't get the chance." at this point im like fk this. was she a) using me? b) trying to get revenge and pretending to want to get back together to fk me over. or c) liked me but now has more attraction for my friend or d) really did want to get back together but shes a snake who wants the best option so changed her mind. or e) something else 
We were going to meet up the next day at 5pm, i was hanging out with 4 friends at the mall. My amog friend said "your a dumb ass for trying to get back together so quick" He said" i wasn't gonna say anything but you need to open your eyes." He showed me a txt from earlier that morning from my ex saying "come over tonight i wanna see you. "I was like wtf, so we play along, he sends "ok but i don't want george to hang with us, "she sends "oh not a problem =)", at this point im really flipping out. he sends "what do you want to do? "and she sent "anything you want
". and he sent, "are you getting back with george?" and she sent "nah we are better off friends after the break up =)". she sent "come at 7 "bc she knew i would be gone by then. I pretend like idk anything and go to her house that night at 5 and she says" i dont think we should get back together", and i said" neither do i "and shes smiling and im thinking in my head manipulative lieing bitch. On my way out shes like "arent you gonna give me a hug =)?" and im like "no" and left. She then sends my friend all this shit like "come tonight i wanna see you =)". and after that sends me" i wanted to work things out tonight but you were in a rush to leave so i didn't get the chance." at this point im like fk this. was she a) using me? b) trying to get revenge and pretending to want to get back together to fk me over. or c) liked me but now has more attraction for my friend or d) really did want to get back together but shes a snake who wants the best option so changed her mind. or e) something else 
