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perceverance
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Fights Dec 31, 2010 20:18:38 GMT -5

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Post by perceverance on Dec 31, 2010 20:18:38 GMT -5

Ok, so i've read in alot of pickup books that they recommend you be a pacifist. well, lately i've been seeing that alot of the guys who are really good with girls arn't necesarilly pacifist. one guy that is liked alot by the school was trying to pick a fight with someone because the other person said that he was good at fighting when he was mad. the guy who is liked alot responded by the telling the guy to get mad and confront him then.

seems like he wants to continue the fight right? my real question is: is it really THAT necessary to be a pacifist? im not saying that fighting is a good thing but i just want to clarify this.

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Adam Extremely Active Member Posts: 762 Registered: Nov 24, 2010 8:29:52 GMT -5	Fights Jan 1, 2011 1:30:43 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Adam on Jan 1, 2011 1:30:43 GMT -5 The pickup books don't necessarily want you to be a pacifist but to give off a "I'm too cool to fight with a dumbass like you" type of aura without actually saying it.
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owl Newcomer Posts: 32 Registered: Dec 21, 2009 23:47:26 GMT -5	Fights Jan 1, 2011 21:32:23 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by owl on Jan 1, 2011 21:32:23 GMT -5 "Speak softly and carry a big stick" Follow this maxim. Respect will follow suit.
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perceverance Extremely Active Member Posts: 903 Registered: Apr 4, 2010 0:38:12 GMT -5	Fights Jan 2, 2011 1:41:49 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by perceverance on Jan 2, 2011 1:41:49 GMT -5 I dont get it man :\
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Adam Extremely Active Member Posts: 762 Registered: Nov 24, 2010 8:29:52 GMT -5	Fights Jan 2, 2011 1:46:57 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Adam on Jan 2, 2011 1:46:57 GMT -5 Jan 2, 2011 1:41:49 GMT -5 perceverance said: I dont get it man :\ It means try to avoid violence as much as possible but if the situation arises be able to kick their asses.
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perceverance Extremely Active Member Posts: 903 Registered: Apr 4, 2010 0:38:12 GMT -5	Fights Jan 2, 2011 2:25:32 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by perceverance on Jan 2, 2011 2:25:32 GMT -5 alright, what if your in a situation where you are gonna get your ass kicked? if its like 3 vs 1 or something, would getting your ass kicked lower your value in a situation like that?
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Adam Extremely Active Member Posts: 762 Registered: Nov 24, 2010 8:29:52 GMT -5	Fights Jan 2, 2011 2:56:07 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Adam on Jan 2, 2011 2:56:07 GMT -5 That's why you talk softly
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perceverance Extremely Active Member Posts: 903 Registered: Apr 4, 2010 0:38:12 GMT -5	Fights Jan 2, 2011 4:58:44 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by perceverance on Jan 2, 2011 4:58:44 GMT -5 Oh... Would it lower your value to get your ass kicked?
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Adam Extremely Active Member Posts: 762 Registered: Nov 24, 2010 8:29:52 GMT -5	Fights Jan 2, 2011 13:34:37 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Adam on Jan 2, 2011 13:34:37 GMT -5 Not if your not a bitch about it. I f you take it like a man the guys who ganged up on you will just look like assholes. When I say take it like a man I mean don't cry the whole way through and shake it off after.
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Fights Jan 2, 2011 16:24:20 GMT -5

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Post by timmywimmy on Jan 2, 2011 16:24:20 GMT -5

Yeah at my school im not a violent or have a big temper but people know if i get pissed or they try to start shit with me i'll try to get outta it without fighting or yelling or whatevee you wanna call it i will and you get A LOT of respect for it

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Fights Jan 2, 2011 18:30:32 GMT -5

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Post by RMO on Jan 2, 2011 18:30:32 GMT -5

fighting. I LOVE FIGHTING. From MMA to just your average asskicking the primal feeling and power are just amazing. I dont get into random fights, but me and my friends want to just waste an evening we create an informal fight club and just beat the shit out of each other.

but if your getting AMOGed and they want to start something, eye contact and not pussying out will result in almost no fights. Since I regularly fight for fun whenever I'm presented in one of those situations I just laugh. If they attack I just smile. I've only been the subject of one such anger fueled fight before and I guillotine choked the alpha until he passed out. My nose got broke and I was pretty bruised up, but those guys respect me and I had a good time.

but thats just me. In general not getting in fights, and diffusing situations without violence is the best option. You should be able to stop a fight with sheer force of will, thats really attractive.

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Contempt Specialist Posts: 860 Registered: Jul 7, 2010 9:53:19 GMT -5	Fights Jan 2, 2011 20:58:28 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Contempt on Jan 2, 2011 20:58:28 GMT -5 I personally agree with prodigy 100%.
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perceverance Extremely Active Member Posts: 903 Registered: Apr 4, 2010 0:38:12 GMT -5	Fights Jan 2, 2011 23:20:16 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by perceverance on Jan 2, 2011 23:20:16 GMT -5 hehe sounds good. thanks guys
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