denim
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Post by denim on Jan 5, 2011 17:02:43 GMT -5
hey all, about 2-3 months ago, i met the most beautiful girl ive ever seen in my life.. i knew who she was from the many parties i had seen her at, but i was always too shy to approach (hadnt read any material either)... after meeting her, i had seen her a few times just in passing, but not at another party.. fast forward a bit--- i get an invite to a new years party from her, to which i end up going (obviously), having a good time, However, i couldnt really work much game on her becuz she was running around all the time (taking care of the house and guests).. the next day she starts chatting up on fb, and i end up getting her number. i start txting within 2 days and realize im gunna be seeing her again at yet another event! The txting itself lasted about an hour, till i decided to "go to bed" and i lay in bed re-reading all the texts and looking for IOI/hidden messages.. she txted back within a few minutes always, although sometimes the messages were hard to respond to (luckily she would double text sometimes asking a question)...
now heres the DL on her, she is in my mind an HB10 and from what ive gathered and heard, she has NEVER had a BF, and is relatively shy around guys (as she told me)... seeing as i'll be seeing her sooon, i need some quick feedback/advice on girls like this, as in how to proceed when i see her and in general how i should progress with her
many thanks
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Post by scripts on Jan 5, 2011 17:23:01 GMT -5
Shy people just need to earn the person's trust and become comfortable with them. Just run game on her like normal but amp up the C/F. If she didn't run parties, then I would say just be nice to her and run Grapes (?) be more than friends routine. I believe that would work.
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Post by bonobo on Jan 5, 2011 18:58:52 GMT -5
Shes a 10 yet shes told you that shes shy an never had a bf ? i thought 10s were intimidating and had alot going for them maybe i dunno what they call it here putting the poon on a pedestal ?? your question is vague i rate just run your normal game but calibrate your escalation meaning if it feels comfortable to u, do it. as for the texts take it easy, good luck tho
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 6, 2011 0:39:07 GMT -5
As bonobo said, your putting the pussy on the pedestal. Don't worry about how to treat a girl like this, she's just like any other girl. Game her, escalate. If she's shy, make sure you build rapport and comfort through commonalities etc. Start out with your basic kino to help build comfort (greet with hug, tickle, playful push etc), escalate to more sexual stuff when it feels right.
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perceverance
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Post by perceverance on Jan 6, 2011 3:01:11 GMT -5
^ exactly what he said
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denim
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Post by denim on Jan 8, 2011 19:47:25 GMT -5
thanks guys really appreciate the answers.. to elaborate a bit and answer some questions, she seems to have everything under control-- school, work, friends etc etc. Only catch is, shes never had a bf (and shes an hb 10) and im afraid that lingering too long would lead me to fall into that dreaded "just friends" zone. Ive gamed girls before with relative success, but as ive said, im afraid of going too fast/slow with this one.. My biggest problem is, we kinda live in different areas so with that in mind, i dont see her very often :S my only "solid" resource atm are txts ...ideas?
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 8, 2011 20:27:15 GMT -5
Keep texts fun and flirty. Let her initiate whenever possible and don't respond to quick or text too often to avoid seeming needy or like you have nothing going for you. Let it flow, arrange a hang out, have fun and escalate. Do what feels right. Good luck
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althma
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Post by althma on Jan 10, 2011 17:39:55 GMT -5
If she really is as shy as you say, be confident and make her shy around you. Dont be an ass about it in a mean way but dont worship her. Yhe way you are going so far is good and you are doing good so keep up the good work!
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Post by Luis the awesomest of awesomes on Jan 10, 2011 19:01:55 GMT -5
escalate physically, you will not fall in the friend zone if you're constantly pulling that trigger ;P
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