timmywimmy
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Post by timmywimmy on Jan 6, 2011 22:25:50 GMT -5
Ive had this for awhile but ve been to scared to say anything but anyways i jizz way to fast... Its a problem times i shouldnt even be close to jizzing like dirty texting or making out with a chick (once a girl touched mt shouldee and i came :S how do i fix this part of the problem is im scared that if i get sensual im gonna jizz right away
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jester
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Post by jester on Jan 6, 2011 23:36:08 GMT -5
Damn, lonely island status. A lot of people are in the same boat as you. I'm not an expert on this, but you should try breathig deeply and slowly when physically escalating. Take your time. I'm not sure what else to say except bring an extra condom. Lol
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 6, 2011 23:47:49 GMT -5
When I escalate with a girl I sometimes get hard easy and that first pre cum comes out. Not a cure or even ideal but if I know I'll be in that sort of a situation, like grinding of making out, I jack off twice earlier in the day. Way more stamina lol
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perceverance
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Post by perceverance on Jan 7, 2011 2:10:03 GMT -5
its because you jack off and finish way too quick. your body gets used to it and finish's quick in any situation. my advice: quit jacking off for a while.
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Shampoo
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Post by Shampoo on Jan 7, 2011 18:40:50 GMT -5
This is pretty funny hahaha its just like American Pie! xD While I was browsing the web I read an article that said that male pornstars last long because their mind is on something other than sex. Like one of em said they imagined fucking Oprah Winfrey. So try that, dont get too focused or too engaged in what your doing. Like DONT think in your mind, "This chick is sooo hot and I wanna ram her."
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slyman
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Post by slyman on Jan 8, 2011 19:58:44 GMT -5
what perceverance said is true. I'd say for about a week, hardly jack off at all, then after a week, jack off once every other day, but make it last for about 30 mins. condition to last longer...by jacking off and being done in 5 minutes, your conditioning yourself to cum in 5 minutes. Jack off for 30 minutes....take small breaks, don't go as intense, just prolong it for 30 minutes, every other day, and youll be fine.
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Yuri Curi
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Post by Yuri Curi on Jan 9, 2011 17:12:43 GMT -5
If your looking to last longer I say you should look in to kegel exercises basically it involves contractions related to stopping your flow of urine when you pee.
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Post by amarok on Jan 9, 2011 20:44:39 GMT -5
I agree with Yuri, Kegel exercises help a lot. Try checking out a natural remedies book. They typically have stuff just for this under Premature Ejaculation. I want to be an alternative practitioner, so I have a bunch of different books like this. My favorite is Alternative Cures by Bill Gottlieb.
Going off of what Slyman said, in each of those sessions get your self close to getting off but don't crest it. gets you used to the feeling of orgasm and not feel the urgency of getting over it. A couple of other things you could try are kinda pulling your scrotum down when you get close, or press on the spot between your anus and scrotum.
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