leetpete
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Post by leetpete on Jan 10, 2011 21:50:33 GMT -5
There is a few girls i have noticed during the day around my school that i am going to try talking to next time i see them. Now, most of them I have never talked to before, so they don't know me and i don't know them. I will just be randomly approaching them at their lockers and such between classes. How should i go about doing this and not appear as a creep or anything and how should i open?
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sleepy
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Post by sleepy on Jan 10, 2011 22:26:03 GMT -5
Most of the girls I'm interested in aren't in any of my classes So if I want to meet a girl who i don't know in-between classes, I just go up and say Hi, then introduce my self etc. I don't think about the right approach or whatever, just go up and say whats up.
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jester
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Post by jester on Jan 11, 2011 0:28:52 GMT -5
Or Facebook. If you know their nammes
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 11, 2011 0:50:49 GMT -5
I disagree about facebook, I feel they should at least be acquaintances first. Other than that I'm wondering the same thing w/ girls a year or two younger than me.
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Post by Contempt on Jan 11, 2011 7:58:49 GMT -5
I definitely agree with canadiankid about the facebook thing. In, fact, i never add girls on facebook. I leave it up the them to do the adding. Otherwise you just seem like another one of those "creeps".
One of the best ways to get to know girls you don't know between classes is get to know someone who frequently talks with them in the halls so you can walk up to them, seemly to talk to the person you know, and either introduce yourself to your target, or (my favorite) be cocky & funny but completely ignore your target, dont even look at her very much until right before you leave. She should be laughing about your C & F by the time you leave. But still don't say anything directly to her. If anything is directed at her it should be a neg or two (Gawd who mentions negs anymore on this forum 0.o). This will leave her wanting more. Next time you see her you can simply walk up to her because she will already know your funny and kinda know you so she will be much more comfortable and open with you. Another great thing to do the second time around is steal her water bottle for a quick drink. (Is it just my school that all the girls carry around the water bottles in? wtf?)
-Contempt
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huddle
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Post by huddle on Jan 11, 2011 23:33:58 GMT -5
Facebook is a definite no-no. The reason this usually doesn't work is because they'll ask.. "How do you know me?" and then in their heads "How does he know my name?"
I have the same issue as above^. In response to Contempt, technically you're doing the same thing to get to know someone who knows the person...
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jester
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Post by jester on Jan 12, 2011 0:48:50 GMT -5
Damn guys. Thxxxx lol. JK. It makes sense. Do what you want. I meant if you can get the girl's name from her then Facebook if you don't have any classes with her
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Post by Contempt on Jan 12, 2011 8:41:44 GMT -5
huddle--Its not creepy like facebook. And it comes off better. I don't even see how its similiar man.... +i know that it works. I've done it
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perceverance
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Post by perceverance on Jan 13, 2011 0:16:35 GMT -5
ahaha, i remember one time i decided to meet a girl on facebook. shit went bad, she asked me who i was, how i knew her, what school i went to, who i knew that she did too; it was like a godamn interrogation.
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