christian194
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Post by christian194 on Jan 16, 2011 22:30:34 GMT -5
She opened a chat on facebook saying hi, we talked for a couple minutes and I said I had to go but to give me her number, she did and said hmu. So I'll text her tomorrow, but where do I go from there?
an example convo would also be nice
thanks for the help
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RMO
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Post by RMO on Jan 16, 2011 22:43:49 GMT -5
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christian194
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Post by christian194 on Jan 16, 2011 22:52:01 GMT -5
just read it, pretty awesome haha but when she says something like "whats up?" i dont feel comfortable saying "i was gonna kidnap u and go to vegas to get married by elvis" or whatever. it sounds pretty cool but i dont think i can pull that sortta thing off haha
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 16, 2011 23:03:52 GMT -5
Do something that's congruen with you but keep it fun. That is the end goal type comment that prodigy makes.
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slyman
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Post by slyman on Jan 16, 2011 23:59:20 GMT -5
keep it light - main point of texting i think is to make PLANS. Hang out with her, do your gaming there.
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christian194
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Post by christian194 on Jan 17, 2011 15:35:11 GMT -5
well i texted her, she asked who it was, when i told her she didnt answer but shes on facebook. im just gonna wait for her to respond or talk on facebook so i dont come across as needy or w/e
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Post by scripts on Jan 17, 2011 18:11:04 GMT -5
I got here a little too late... You were supposed to wait about 2-3 days before texting her. You failed the waiting period >_<
The point of texting is to make her think of you. But, when you call her that's when you make plans.
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christian194
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Post by christian194 on Jan 17, 2011 18:24:37 GMT -5
ight lol well just cause i didnt wait an extra day doesn't mean im fucked overall. ill just let it play out
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Post by RMO on Jan 17, 2011 18:29:58 GMT -5
just follow the rules in the article and you will be golden, dont try to overthink anything
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Post by scripts on Jan 17, 2011 19:23:39 GMT -5
True, I would say also DHV spike a little more often than usual. The point of the waiting period is to show her that she is not the only thing in your life. You need to be busy with other things whether it's a sport, academics, music, etc.
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 17, 2011 19:59:10 GMT -5
Scripts, I think your overanalyzing this too much. As long as he's fun and gives off the right vibes, waiting ain't that big of a deal.
I'm not saying text right after but w/e
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be intresting, ect ect PUA
