christian194
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Registered: Sept 2, 2010 20:39:54 GMT -5
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Post by christian194 on Jan 19, 2011 21:41:17 GMT -5
the one who didnt answer my texts now talks to me on facebook all the time. there's a problem, the conversations are fun and sometimes sexual for a second but that just ends with me jokingly getting called creepy. when i put 's she says ew but writes <3's and smileys all the time. she's started every conversation and re initiates them when i test if they'll die. she kicked my leg in school today so i told her i'd spank her tomorrow for it "ah!" was her answer lol. i dont wanna get friend zoned and i need some advice quick or maybe im just over-analyzing? still help is nice
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Post by Luis the awesomest of awesomes on Jan 31, 2011 18:19:56 GMT -5
so many AFCs so little time. j/k Dude in school Kino, and kino, and kino, and talk, and kino kino kino kino kino kino kino kino kino kino OH and kino
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Post by Contempt on Jan 31, 2011 21:47:17 GMT -5
Another thing thats very common is waiting to long, you can't wait week(s) to get with her. you've gotta make it happen or it will fall flat quickly. This is so understated so oftenn.
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slyman
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Registered: Aug 18, 2010 22:39:03 GMT -5
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Post by slyman on Feb 1, 2011 16:32:24 GMT -5
so true contempt. Although I wonder if that is a result of the people who usually wait too long. That didn't make sense. What I'm saying is - I feel like the people who wait too long and then the attraction is "gone" are also the people who have AA, low confidence, etc. Sort of a double-edged sword.
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Post by canadiankid on Feb 1, 2011 17:47:03 GMT -5
I think that's a good point slyman. But regardless you do need to escalate without waiting to long. Because attraction will fade.
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Post by Luis the awesomest of awesomes on Feb 1, 2011 19:40:27 GMT -5
yes and I forgot to tell you to Kino
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Post by Contempt on Feb 1, 2011 19:48:50 GMT -5
great point slyman, also, i've found with AFCs that the oneitus grows over time turning more and more desperate in addition to the things that you mentioned.
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