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Post by canadiankid on Jan 20, 2011 1:54:24 GMT -5
I can game, and game fucking well, without consciously thinking about it  All this becoming a natural process actually worked fucking amazing! I actually game better without thinking about it in a social setting. The other night I was at an exam prep course (we have "diploma exams" worth 50% and government regulated here, I'm sure many of you have similar exams) and I got introduced to a cute girl by a friend of a friend. It briefly crossed my mind to game her but I decided to focus on the class (I suck at English, not the language just the subject). By an hour later these two home schooled girls I had met were talking in polish about how we were flirting alot. (my buddy understands a bit and told me after) Anyways, I just kept going oblivious to what I was actually doing. I said some comments that were probably a bit too cocky but I did so congruently, confidently an without retraction. I ended up putting my phone on the desk in front of her without saying a word. She put her # in and I've been texting her occasionally haha. Probably a future hook up, all while learning English haha. I do, however, need to turn up the funny a little and down the cocky a tiny bit. Any thoughts on how to do this? |
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Post by Lego on Jan 23, 2011 17:33:24 GMT -5
Well i can't tell you how to do fix this, but i can tell you how you're NOT gonna fix this.
My first thought was that you should just think before you speak, but thats not really a good idea cus you said it yourself you game better without thinking about it. Don't start to contemplate if what you're gonna say is too funny or too cocky because then you're suddenly gonna be gaming consciously, which is the opposite of what you do best.
I guess you should just let it happen by itself, if you keep learning and progressing you will eventually get better at balancing cocky/funny, but just don't get stuck in your head trying to fix it on the spot, thats just gonna make you think too much.
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 23, 2011 18:02:28 GMT -5
Haha yeah I actually realized just know that I was relatively similar before discovering PUA except now I don't repress c/f and sexuality. That's what society does, and it fucks us over. But that's the past, I think the lesson here is to let yourself game and don't over analyze.
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Post by Contempt on Jan 23, 2011 18:51:25 GMT -5
Most of being funny is how you say things, or how you act. Work on some facial expressions in the mirror that you can use when a girl does something that could be interpreted weird. As soon as a girl does something a little weird and she knows it i give her one of these "looks" and they usually crack up. Almost a non verbal neg. Also talk slower and use pauses to your advantage, they can make the difference between a girl laughing or not. As for cockiness, you have to get away from saying things like "I'm just that awesome". Its ok to start out with these as your becoming an rAFC and haven't been cocky at all previously, but once you get better at PUA you should drop that shit and just rely on body language and the occasional well placed line to portray your cockiness. (I don't mean line as in prememorized material, I mean something you can come up with on the spot to fit the situation) This is sort of unrelated but its something good to keep in mind: girls will crack up at shitty jokes that guys wouldn't bat an eye at BECAUSE they are submitting to you and see you as a potential "mate". Also, ladies view guys who are funny as "intelligent" people (fun fact!). Good luck -Contempt |
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 23, 2011 19:24:54 GMT -5
I want more fun facts! Haha I see where your going with this.
Btw I'm not actually terrible at this, cause I do make girls laugh. Just not as much until I create attraction, then I get those submissive laughs you mentioned.
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Post by Contempt on Jan 24, 2011 18:29:46 GMT -5
Actuallly, (i know some of you mights stab me for this) but look up some C/F routines too, I never use them but I read them because reading them gives my brain jumpstarts for possible responses to girls to make them laugh that I can make up. Its kind of like watching another person play soccer to increase the mental side of your soccer skills, of course your not going to play exactly the same as them and make the same moves as them, that wouldn't work, but your still going to learn and improve your game by watching them.
-Contempt (please dont shoot me for mentioning canned shit)
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Post by jester on Jan 24, 2011 18:35:06 GMT -5
^dude Contempt! That video thing is brilliant. A lot of people ignore the mental side of game. They always tell us on the snareline to watch videos of really good marching snare stuff. Your brain learns a little bit through mimicry.
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 24, 2011 20:16:17 GMT -5
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 24, 2011 20:18:20 GMT -5
i give up, my shot gun looked way better in word
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Post by Contempt on Jan 24, 2011 20:24:53 GMT -5
Hahaha. i see it now.
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 24, 2011 20:27:54 GMT -5
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Post by amarok on Jan 24, 2011 20:41:55 GMT -5
I had no idea about upping my CF from "I'm just that awesome", Contempt. That realization for me will really help.
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