Getting physical

[perceverance]

Heres an interesting question: mpua's usually tell you to be unreactive to an amog or another guy but lets check out this senario.

Your sitting down, eating your lunch at a table and a girl that is starting to dig you is sitting at the table next to yours and casually looks over at you from time to time. now here comes the problem, a guy(your 'friend') comes over and asks you to move. theres no room and you make room for him so he leaves right? ok, then later on he comes back and as a joke him and his other friend pull you off where your sitting so he can sit there. meanwhile, the chicks at the table next to yours are watching everything happen. how are you supposed to react? throwing punches seems like an overreaction and not doing anything makes you look like you just got tossed around. if you taunt him or anything, he'll probably be more clever than you and amog the shit out of you with his wise lines.

what would you do?

[RMO]

I would just me like

WOW handsy,

being unnreactive means not flipping shit, that doesnt mean the motherfucker can just disrespect you or anything.

and thats not a joke, thats a physically moving you becuase your a threat/ or in his way, thats disrespect.

[perceverance]

but you would just stand there and say that? i guess what im trying to ask is if you would also get physical with him because he disrespected you.

[Validus]

" If you touch me one more time, were going to have issues.. "
That kind of vibe works for me.. (i'm also 6'1 or so.. still )

Other day some kid i was walking by..

' Yo, pick up my water bottle'..

And he was serious.. said it like 4 times, his friends standing like 6 feet away watching him.. I turned to him, said " as if lol" laughed , walked away, ignored.. He looked like a tool after picking his bottle..

[perceverance]

^ i was going to look like a wanna-be tough guy though, i mean, im not scared to fight but i wasn't trying to be the one picking a fight when im in front of around 10-15 chicks sitting around a table. i kind of brushed it off, i dont know if continuing the conflict is the thing i should have done though.

and whats the deal with being tall lol, i dont mean to offend you but how does being tall help you out in a fight other than having more reach.

[RMO]

intimidation factor.

If the bastard esclates and hits you, he loses value, just sit there and be like wow man, whats up? just dont care.

[perceverance]

^ ahhh, i dont understand, your telling me if he hits me that i should just sit there and be like wow man? but hes disrespecting me by touching me right? so should i say " If you touch me one more time, were going to have issues.. " like Validus is saying or should i just do nothing.

[RMO]

two separate things

a.) if he starts a fight, fight back, but you wont lose value, because you didnt start it

b.) but before that, unless hes crazy, if you dont bow to him, he wont do shit. Its like the above water bottle thing.

I wouldnt do what validus says as far as AMOGing the AMOG, but i personally dont need to be that way to assert dominance, I dont have to say anything or be angry looking.

[perceverance]

i dont know if he was crazy then because i clearly did not bow to him when he asked me to make room so he could sit down. i simply told him there was no room and he still took action. is him moving me the start of the fight or is that when he gets in my face or starts swinging. im dominant most of the time but i dont think people pick up on it LOL.

[Nick]

First off, the only way you'll stop him from doing it in the first place is having pre-established dominance.

The other thing is that you need to be leading the table your sitting at or at least actively bringing fun to the table. That way, if he pulls you away, everyone there will be pissed at him. In fact, he'll probably realize your too busy talking to the table that you don't give a shit about him and he'll probably figure out not to pull you away. The fact that he had to get his friend to do it is pathetic enough.

Lastly, if you have no choice, just make something fun out of it. "Keep your hands off the package" etc...

[perceverance]

^ hmm that makes sense. thanks bro

[DanZy]

I've had a similar situation but while I was in a set. A guy I know literally attempted to pull me away and try get into said set. Now all these girls were looking at me as he pulled me away, I turned to him and said "really dude? Really?" in a pretty condescending tone and he backed iff pretty quickly

[nikkidaamog]

Yes i agree with bolt, establishing pre-dominance is the key factor in this situation. But i get where you're coming from, this is a very hard thing to deal with especially with two amog physcially challanging you.

[Johnny Bravo]

The best possible thing you could do in the lunch room at this time is simple. Walk away.

"Damn dude, if you wanted to sit next to Britney that bad, you should ask her on a date" (Now no matter what he says to the girl next to you, its sexual/try hard) "But go for it dude, goodluck, im gonna go chill with some other people (directed towards the people you were with)"

Get up. Walk away, slowly, head up, like a man.

[rakoon]

i would never amog that shit lol...
not paying 35$ gym of nothing...ima kill da boy

meh... probably wont get the chicks but at least there wont be any other dicks like him try it again lol