weighed down by old relationship

[dcfly]

two years ago, i was in a middle school relationship, my first, with a girl who goes to my school's sister school (I go to one of those ridiculous all guys schools; sucks). I knew nothing about how to act around girls, so i got a rep for being "clingy". Since then i have tried to shake this rep, but to no avail, and no matter what i do, it seems like its all they see when the girls in my grade see me. Ive tried going after girls at other schools, but i have very little time outside of school, so it makes it hard to make a connection. Ive also tried going after older girls, but things have been rough do to different social circles, but I am currently working on a senior hb7.5. My game is very solid, comedy based as I was born funny, but the only girls who even feel like talking to me are RONG. Seriously I am fucking George Clooney to these rong girls. Any ideas to help me shake my "clingy" rep? Thanks in advance.

[amarok]

If you get fairly close to the girl, make a "heart-to-heart" deep conversation where you purposely "leak" how you're not looking for a girl that's clingy, how you'd been that way yourself a long time ago and don't want that from either parties. Most girls tend to have been clingy/insecure and been hurt by it too, so it makes that great connection in the girl's mind. "Wow, we were both like this and he knows it's bad. He would make a better boyfriend than a clingy guy."

[dcfly]

yo that is dynamite thanks man

[slyman]

honestly, to get rid of this just game multiple girls at one time. Develop a mindset of abundance, and then you will have no choice but to not be clingy - youve got options! I used to be a little bit like this...take my advice above for the broader picture. For the short term, some things to say to girls to make them know your not clingy is to always (jokingly of course) accuse them of stalking you. Also, another thing small things - when texting, always have her say the last thing...and take longer or the same time that she takes to respond. hope this helps man, good luck.

[canadiankid]

^yup implied is ALWAYS better when communicating with women. Leaves mystery and you seem like you care to much. Trust me, I used to try and say that stuff but now I make sure my subcomms give it off.

On an unrelate note, exam break and procrastination on studying is giving me way to much time on here lol

[slyman]

haha same god damn i suck at managing my time.

[dcfly]

Trust me I'm no longer clingy, I've learned better, and these forums definitely have helped. I'm just tryin to get some ideas for shakin this rep

[canadiankid]

What does RONG mean? And also it was two years ago. No one cares about that anymore, the only reason they would think about it is if you bring it up. Change us a generally understood thing in HS.

[dcfly]

Rong means ugly, weird, and the like, also can be used as a noun; like wrong but w/o the w. I forgot that that word is exclusive to really preppy schools in my area.

And even though it was two years, it is my rep. Also, since the number of hb7+'s per grade in my school is low, like maybe 7 max in a grade of 90ish, it is easy to be written off by the attractive girls b/c they have so many options. My grade is especially bad off, with one hb7.5 and five hb7's. Thanks for the help though.

[canadiankid]

You don't have 8s or 9s??? Are you serious? Anyways go game elsewhere, meet people outside if school.

[dcfly]

the other grades do, specifically the senior class, and out of school isn't really an option b/c im busy, even on weekends. I have tried out of school, and so have a lot of my close buddies, and we generally agree that it is a lot of work for not a lot of putting out.

[canadiankid]

Did someone sticky this or did I accidentally hit that on my phone? I think I accidentally did.
After seeing some of your other posts man, I'm not sure why your stuck on this issue

[dcfly]

it doesnt effect me per-say, just the girls in my grade b/c they have reservations about me; otherwise my game is dynamic, though my closing needs work, and sometimes i get caught up in my own head. I guess we can consider this closed.