Im done with pick up

[canadiankid]

This is why everyone stresses inner game. It's becoming who YOU want to become, NOT feeling insecure, and NOT feeling weird around girls.

[RMO]

You should have done inner game first.

[perceverance]

^ what they said

[Nick]

There is nothing wrong with who you are now. You already have the skills and ability to socialize.

Just go out and have fun and don't worry about anything else. Don't learn lines or focus on anything but having fun. Honestly, you're post said a lot of things I agree with. Learning PUA should not make you anti-social. Take a little bit of it at a time and go have fun and get experience.

PUA can really mess a person up or it can bring out the best in them. I don't want you giving up now. It looks like you've made it a long ways and you have a lot of potential. Just forget about everything else and be YOU.

It's all about having fun anyways, right? Take it slow and don't stress out about it.

Best of luck,
- Nick

[George]

yea my inner game does need work.I always feel like I need attention from girls and that also feels weird when they dont pay any attention to me

but where do I start? Im not sure if its a confidence issue or not,which part of inner game do I work on ,on this forum

[dcfly]

i always feel more confident if i know i look nice, so i would recommend dressing nicely. Just cover all your bases with the simple stuff. Work out more, be more precise about your personal hygiene, specifically acne and smell, i.e. find a good deodorant and good skin care products, consult a dermatologist if need be. If that doesn't help, see a therapist b/c you may have some subterranean issues that have been allowed to fester inside of you. From your initial post, it sounds like you hit rock bottom, so just chill out for a little while. Maybe foods that make you happier would also help, so I pre-googled it for you www.thechangeblog.com/7-foods-that-make-you-happier/
Good luck.

[manwhore]

Go infield and learn to not give a fuck, in pua your gonna crash alot but as long as you know about it i promise you wont die being a loser with chicks even if you give up now, you'll come back sooner or later so you can whine or you can do something about the way you think and interact right now

[Contempt]

Work on inner game happinness, and being alpha. All the posts i've seen from you have been mystery method type stuff about material etc. Of course your going to come out feeling this way if you work primarily on that stuff, forget about that stuff, literately, it won't help you and just make your life worse than it already is.

Stick in there man,

-Contempt

[Shampoo]

For the first time I don't agree with them, cause that's whats been happening to me on and off. It's not about practicing in the field OR inner game atleast not for me. What it is is me over analyzing and being in a slump. If you can avoid those two things you'll be good. Get the ball rolling and try to hangout with some kids that are cool but you don't really talk to. You just gotta get in the grove. You beat over analyzing by just not thinking about what you say but don't get stupid. Try out new things you would never do and see if it works, it might help in the future. All it is is you hit a plateau because you read all this shit how you gotta be alpha, cocky and funny and the whole time you talk to a girl that's all you think about or before you open you think about all the pua stuff you have to do get wrapped up in the thinking and not do it cause you get nervous. JUST DON'T THINK.

[RMO]

^ isnt not thinking inner game