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Post by canadiankid on Jan 25, 2011 19:48:16 GMT -5
This was written in 7 minutes and is slightly a rant haha.
Self confidence is attractive, it just is.
Have you ever given a compliment and the person completely disagrees and says they suck? Probably. It's not enjoyable for the conplementer nor is it alpha on the complementees part.
Think about this, have you ever been fitting with a girl and been really into her, but then she starts giving off signs of lack of confidence? It just kills the feeling. For example I'm texting this hb the other night and I essentially described her for my requirements of a girl to take to Vegas. Anyways she's says she doesn't know blah blah (she's hot but doesn't think so, it pisses me off). Eventually she takes the hint and volunteers and off on an epic adventure we go. Today she texts me to ask when were going to Vegas, I said in a couple days I gotta read some card counting books. She says cool, I'm ready when you are. To continue the fun convo from the other day I said she might have to be a stripper to make some money at first. She excitedly agreed except she didn't think shed get the job cause she ain't hot enough :/ it killed the tension and the mood we had going.
Anyways it works the same both ways and that's my point. Don't doubt yourself and your the man!
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 25, 2011 20:27:28 GMT -5
On a side note, is anybody tired of hooking up with chicks that don't have their shit together? This might be a good thing, I don't feel any external validation from getting girls anymore, probably has to do with more confidence in who I am. I think I'm gonna start looking for a meaningful relationship with a girl I actually like a lot.
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Post by Contempt on Jan 25, 2011 20:35:12 GMT -5
The worst thing is when you call a girl gorgeous and she says no i'm ugly, you disagree, and she says it again. I pretty much stop talking to girls after they do that. FUhhhhhhhck!
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Post by RMO on Jan 26, 2011 0:03:17 GMT -5
The worst thing is when you call a girl gorgeous and she says no i'm ugly, you disagree, and she says it again. I pretty much stop talking to girls after they do that. FUhhhhhhhck! It makes me want to hang out with slutty / bitchy girls because 'usually' their self assured, and a fuck ton more fun |
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Post by jester on Jan 26, 2011 0:16:21 GMT -5
I agree 100%!
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 26, 2011 0:20:15 GMT -5
Exactly! Especially since bitchy girls don't end up being bitchy to me. And then we just flirt a lot with the witty bitchy/asshole comments going back and forth.
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Post by RMO on Jan 26, 2011 1:28:56 GMT -5
^ exactly
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Post by perceverance on Jan 26, 2011 2:51:22 GMT -5
bitchy girls = <3
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Post by $wagg on Jan 28, 2011 4:13:49 GMT -5
lawlll can't say i disagree.
on a side note..EVERYONE SHOULD PIKUP CONQUER YOUR CAMPUS BY MARK REDMAN..
I know a couple of you guys have mentioned it, but really it should be the most stressed ebook on this forum..it deals with school oriented game, and is really more about life improvement than just getting laid..
It gives you some good starting specific steps to SHAPE your OWN reality, has opposed to just getting sucked in by others..Basically how to be a man, and there is nothing that builds self confidence more than that.
Men prioritize and achieve, while boys just wanna get laid.
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Post by canadiankid on Jan 28, 2011 13:36:25 GMT -5
^i think it is the most recommended one on here. I recommend to all the new guys and a couple guys that I'm helping to mentor
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Post by dante3x3 on Feb 10, 2011 20:10:31 GMT -5
i didnt actualy read this lol, but I just wanna say, posting something called "self confidence is attractive" on a pick up forum is a little redundant dont you think?
I just read your post, sounds like the girl is fishing for compliments
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Post by canadiankid on Feb 10, 2011 20:43:44 GMT -5
It's a rant lol it's just about girls who have no self confidence being unattractive to me. Same goes both ways
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Post by creaturez on Feb 11, 2011 1:11:38 GMT -5
On a side note, is anybody tired of hooking up with chicks that don't have their shit together? This might be a good thing, I don't feel any external validation from getting girls anymore, probably has to do with more confidence in who I am. I think I'm gonna start looking for a meaningful relationship with a girl I actually like a lot. Yea, I'm past the point of needing to hook up with girls to feel like im accomplishing something. I'd rather pass on the slutty girls, and only go for the girls that have standards, the ones your AFC friends have no chance of getting with. Even if that means less frequent |
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Post by perceverance on Feb 11, 2011 1:12:53 GMT -5
lawlll can't say i disagree. on a side note..EVERYONE SHOULD PIKUP CONQUER YOUR CAMPUS BY MARK REDMAN.. I know a couple of you guys have mentioned it, but really it should be the most stressed ebook on this forum..it deals with school oriented game, and is really more about life improvement than just getting laid.. It gives you some good starting specific steps to SHAPE your OWN reality, has opposed to just getting sucked in by others..Basically how to be a man, and there is nothing that builds self confidence more than that. Men prioritize and achieve, while boys just wanna get laid. Honestly, I dont know WTF is up but that book made my game worse. All that just have fun bullshit doesn't work, at least not for me. I do have fun but I have fun when I'm gaming girls and being successful at it. If an amog is in the vicinity and he is taking my girls, I get pissed off, I know its wrong but it's my style. Maybe I need some help because when I 'just have fun' I have no success with girls and the other guys end up gaming them instead. Not giving a shit and mimicking Tyler Durden has given me much more success. Girls seem to want to get my attention. |
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Post by RMO on Feb 11, 2011 1:17:50 GMT -5
^GTFO
have fun bullshit? well it only works if you dont give a shit as well. yin and yang.
If someone comes in and games your girls treat them like ugly girls. Passive alpha works alot more. Personally that book did absolutely nothing for my game, but it did validate alot of stuff I already believed in.
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