At A Loss Here Gang

[nbrianj]

Been talking to this girl online for a couple of days via messaging, and she's been showing some interest, but I don't know how to get things going with her exactly... Like she laughs at my jokes and all, but nothing has come up that allows me to play it kind of sexual or anything. She recently asked if I was in college, since my profile says I attend Penn State (I've only put the deposit down) and so far it seems so darn boring. How do I make it more engaging so that she shows more interest and so that I can set up a time to hang out?

[jester]

The only way to make the interaction better is to have it face to face with your target. Words are only a small percentage of actual communication. Meet up with the girl or something, then escalate.

[tails]

^ What Jester said.

Also first impressions are important. The moment you see her, escalate fast. Give her a hug. Pretend like you guys have known each other for ages, and if u guys really connected over text messaging, that will support the sudden frame you're pulling on her.

You don't HAVE to make it more engaging. If you try to make it sound more engaging, she'll notice that and you come off as a try-hard. Just pretend like it's engaging, pretend as though she's jealous of your super awesome life.

Thus the way to plan the meet up is just giving her an excuse to hang out with you. Girls will make excuses to hang out with you if you're cool. Just say, oh hey me and my friends are going to the bowling alley tomorrow. -wait for response- "Why don't you just tag along?"
You are LETTING her tag along. If she says no, she wouldn't have met up with you in the first place. Try again next week.

[Contempt]

Meet her ASAP, but until then, keep your texts interesting. Shes not going to stick around for a lame ass conversation and certainly not going to be excited to meet you if you seem boring. You HAVE to make it sexual, think of it as kino without touching her. Take everything she says the wrong way, and don't be afraid to make your intentions obvious (in a joking way of course) but make sure you still play hard to get. Sort of sounds hypocritical but is what i mean is make tons of sex jokes about you and her, yet still be independent and make it clear to her your not emotionally attached at all to whether she's "with" you or not. Go read my text game FR to get your mind going. When you meet her you can be all *hug* *touchy* *touchy* etc or you can just play it cool if your going to be nervous. Kino but don't be all over her.

-Contempt