girl i just met.

[bballphenom]

okay so i was texting this girl i just met and was wondering if i did a good job...

Me: Hey (her name).
Her: Hey (my name)
me: What are you doing?
Her: just layinh here, haha you?
me:your laying down at 5:10? and i just got home.
her: haha, yeah i'm sleepy. but im about to get some food
me: i can never sleep during the day, it's so bright andjust hard too do.
her: haha, i love sleeeping during the day!
me: haha how? i try when im really tird, but just end up watching tv. you must got to sleep at like 3 every night.
her: haha pretty much, and the sleep all day.like o the weekends, i wake up at like 12. haha
me: haha thats just like me.we should hangout sometime.
her: sounds good to me!
me: alright cool, well i got to go so text me sometime.
her: alright i will

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

great job only one problem, you didn't get the hangout. you went for it but then backed out; also the text me some time line was too much work for her, you're the man. next time call her instead of texting it's not the same thing, also next time, get the day and time of the hangout.

[Contempt]

^ Yeah. I Also feel like you coulda made it a bit more playful and sexual, even if you did just meet her, but thats just me.

[BROner]

I concur (sounds smarter ) with the above guys. Definitely not bad, but you left it very open-ended and gave her no real reason to text you back-unless she's already full on craving your dick, you're number's just getting tossed into the pile. Try and be a little more sexual and playful, that convo was more along the lines of what me and a guy friend would text like. Also, get a firmer hangout- doesn't have to be "Friday at 9 o'clock at the bowling alley" but something like "let's go to the movies this weekend/saturday/sunday" that way it's an exact date for her to contemplate and gives you a reason to text her again. "Let's hangout sometime" usually means never, you have no clue how many times I've said that to a girl and then never arranged anything because I didn't take action right off the start.

[casanovareborn]

I agree with the advice given by luis, contempt, and broner.

However, as a side note its important to remember that we are creatures of emotion. If you have not built up enough comfort with the girl, youre looking at a flake.
If you built less attraction than neccessary, again you are looking at a flake.

A girl has to subconsciously feel safe to go somewhere with you, as well as feel emotionally aroused by you.

[simplemike]

Feb 8, 2011 6:37:14 GMT -5 bballphenom said:

okay so i was texting this girl i just met and was wondering if i did a good job...

Me: Hey (her name).
Her: Hey (my name)
me: What are you doing?
Her: just layinh here, haha you?
me:your laying down at 5:10? and i just got home.
her: haha, yeah i'm sleepy. but im about to get some food
me: i can never sleep during the day, it's so bright andjust hard too do.
her: haha, i love sleeeping during the day!
me: haha how? i try when im really tird, but just end up watching tv. you must got to sleep at like 3 every night.
her: haha pretty much, and the sleep all day.like o the weekends, i wake up at like 12. haha
me: haha thats just like me.we should hangout sometime.
her: sounds good to me!
me: alright cool, well i got to go so text me sometime.
her: alright i will

Nice...haha