Be a good leader

Chris
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Be a good leader Oct 5, 2008 17:54:35 GMT -5

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Post by Chris on Oct 5, 2008 17:54:35 GMT -5

A lot of people, when they first get into the idea of being a leader think that leading is all about ordering people around and contolling others. That might be what it looks like but thats NOT what it is.

Being a true leader is about finding other people potential and HELPING them to maximize that potential. If you can do this, people WILL follow you because they will totally respect you. Obviously, when it comes to pick-up, ordering people around will make you look more Alpha... but just remember this isn't what leading is all about, this is a symptom of leading.

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Andrew Moderator If it's not fun, you're not doing it right. Posts: 1,084 Registered: Sept 29, 2008 21:14:42 GMT -5	Be a good leader Oct 5, 2008 19:34:25 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Andrew on Oct 5, 2008 19:34:25 GMT -5 I think theres a differnce between being alpha and being AMOG. Being AMOG would be ordering people around.
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SamethP Extremely Active Member Old Specialist It's my world Posts: 1,430 Registered: Sept 27, 2008 18:34:21 GMT -5	Be a good leader Oct 6, 2008 1:42:26 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by SamethP on Oct 6, 2008 1:42:26 GMT -5 indeed ^ good post man ^^
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Grape Extremely Active Member Founder/Ex-Head Admin Posts: 2,926 Registered: Jul 3, 2008 19:26:20 GMT -5	Be a good leader Oct 11, 2008 19:29:54 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Grape on Oct 11, 2008 19:29:54 GMT -5 Well, the AMOG is essentially the alpha. He just also controls the group, leading them on exciting adventures of fun.
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Post by Chris on Oct 5, 2008 17:54:35 GMT -5

Post by Andrew on Oct 5, 2008 19:34:25 GMT -5

Post by SamethP on Oct 6, 2008 1:42:26 GMT -5

Post by Grape on Oct 11, 2008 19:29:54 GMT -5

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