Touchy People?

[traindom]

Hey guys. This has nothing to do with girls for now; it is more of an amog thing. At school, I am the cool, relaxed dude. I am silent, but I can talk when I want to. Being the obnoxious loudmouth really is not my thing, and I am fine with that. I try to keep a pretty good poker face but it seems that sometimes the ninth graders (I am a Junior) seem to pick on me! Like this one time in the bathroom, a kid grabbed my behind as a joke (not a haha I laugh with you joke, but a haha I just violated you joke) and I was like, "WTH?"

Here's the problem. I have heard unreactiveness is key, but to what point? What do you do when it starts getting physical? Just stand there like a statue and take it? Or start cracking some heads? I don't want to lose my scholarship or anything but I do not want kids in one grade below thinking they can get away with this stuff.

[canadiankid]

No you still need to stick up for your self. The key is to not lash out with anger. If you just take it that's very beta and you become everyones bitch and it will happen frequently

[rakoon]

well if you judge that you can take on him why not?
cmon he's right, the shitty beta stuff that you should hold your anger does only apply when its not physical and in current scenario there no girls around.

i always kicked ass in high school, beat the shit out of people, got suspended here and there and it never made me not get pussy

[canadiankid]

I'm not saying kick his ass over that but don't let him do it. Tell him to fuck off and walk away. Kicking his ass over that shows your insecure about your sexuality and that's overreacting imo. I do enjoy the occasional fight though

[perceverance]

I have this EXACT problem and it's fucking up my game soooo bad. Can you guys go in detail about what I can do to fix it please

[rakoon]

i dont know why people on the forum say that fight=insecure
how can I be insecure when I kick the guy's ass?
if fight in front of a chick that I was gaming..yeah, but not when its only between guys

had the same problem, went gym for 1 year and never had to deal with things like this again
actualy I just LOVE when a random guy does that stuff since it gives me a good reason to stretch up my arms

[canadiankid]

Nah it's insecure that you'd kick his ass over something so small. Like me and a buddy kicked these two guys asses for touching his gfs ass. That was alpha and not insecure. He was out of line, my buddy cracked him in the face. His buddy jumped in so I dropped his buddy.
If someone touches your ass and you jump straight to kicking some ass that's insecure about your sexuality and very beta.

Percerverance - just keep living your life, make some AMOG comments and be the alpha. When someone does that shit they look like a try hard for attention and only gain if you react strongly. Nobody likes a try hard. Keep your head up bro, you'll do good.

[Grape]

Damn I'm so glad I promoted you Canadiankid hahaha


To traindom, you've got some work to do if you don't know what to do in such a small situation like that. The kid isn't picking on you to make you feel bad but rather for his own enjoyment. But he's still a dick for getting pleasure by trying to fuck with others. If a freshman grabbed my ass in the bathroom I'd laugh, say "Really dude? You are the coolest fucking kid I have ever met," (sarcastically) and pat him on the back.

[alphaqez]

I like to follow Mr. Cruise's example;
If that doesn't work, I'd shove him and walk away but I'm 6'3 so might not work out so well if you're petite sized.

[perceverance]

^ what does height have to do with anything.

[alphaqez]

I'm a big guy, sir. A 6'3 dude would have a better chance at fending off someone than a 5'3 dude would, sir.

[canadiankid]

Big is a mindset.

[Contempt]

Feb 23, 2011 0:28:04 GMT -5 canadiankid said:

Big is a mindset.

^ good shit.

You mean you guys never do wierd shit to other people to see how they respond cause its funny as fuck?

My school doesn't have those little walls between the urinals, so when i go in the bathroom and theres only one person in there, i always chose the one closest to them rather than the furthest one away (like most people would) . There usually a little creeped out, if their not freaked out or i know them i'll sit there while pissing and stare at there face the entire time, not saying anything. Then zip up my pants and walk out like nothing happened. Another thing i do is walk up to the urinals, pull my pants ALL the way down to my feet, and then piss. Its funny as fuck.

As for responding to that shit, when my friends do stuff like that to me I'll usually respond by saying something like "Woah there tiger" or just do something funny. Once my friend chose the urinal next to me to be funny, then started pissing across into my urinal (He's crazy, and a natural), so i didn't say anything, turned around and walked into a stall to finish pissing. Be unreactive, don't show that your freaked out no matter what, because that is what people want when they do this.

[Grape]

Yeah, being "unreactive" is so corny and weird in those situations like Contempt mentioned. Much better to laugh and tease the guy doing it for being a dick (playfully)

[Nick]

I don't really like "Mr. Cruise's" example. He seemed to way overreact even if he was "calm".

Honestly, just say something like "hands off the goods, bro" and walk off laughing or give him a pat on the back.

I can't fucking believe Contempt. What a fuck I would probably bust out laughing if I even tried to stare at a guy next to me the whole time.