Touchy People?

[rakoon]

Feb 23, 2011 9:36:08 GMT -5 Contempt said:

Feb 23, 2011 0:28:04 GMT -5 canadiankid said:

Big is a mindset.

^ good shit.

You mean you guys never do wierd shit to other people to see how they respond cause its funny as fuck?

My school doesn't have those little walls between the urinals, so when i go in the bathroom and theres only one person in there, i always chose the one closest to them rather than the furthest one away (like most people would) . There usually a little creeped out, if their not freaked out or i know them i'll sit there while pissing and stare at there face the entire time, not saying anything. Then zip up my pants and walk out like nothing happened. Another thing i do is walk up to the urinals, pull my pants ALL the way down to my feet, and then piss. Its funny as fuck.

As for responding to that shit, when my friends do stuff like that to me I'll usually respond by saying something like "Woah there tiger" or just do something funny. Once my friend chose the urinal next to me to be funny, then started pissing across into my urinal (He's crazy, and a natural), so i didn't say anything, turned around and walked into a stall to finish pissing. Be unreactive, don't show that your freaked out no matter what, because that is what people want when they do this.

lol
ill do it just for the lulz sometimes

[smoob]

^lmao hell yeah

[RMO]

I am kind of a dick, and I fuck around with people just because I can. But i saw people giving unreactive a bad name.

Its is really, dont react negatively. AMOGing, not reacting, and reacting positively are all options, and depending on the situation, equally effective.

[canadiankid]

You bring up a good point Prodigy, you can be unreactive but you can also react as long as it's to the right degree at the right time (ie. Don't overreact)

[1andonly]

i would probably play along and say "slow down there buddy we just met"

just fight a joke with a joke

[traindom]

Thanks for the responses, guys. I'm unreactive by nature really. When he did that, I just stared at him. When I reflect upon this, I remember he did it for his fun, not necessarily to pick on me. It's like that random giggle you hear when you past by people haha.

I guess I have to work towards that having fun mentality. But I have to be careful since it would seem downright creepy for the silent brooding guy to just stare at people in the urinals. It seems to be more of a play off of a persona or reputation at the school. It's definitely something I can work after highschool.

[Nick]

Mar 4, 2011 17:17:44 GMT -5 traindom said:

I guess I have to work towards that having fun mentality. But I have to be careful since it would seem downright creepy for the silent brooding guy to just stare at people in the urinals. It seems to be more of a play off of a persona or reputation at the school. It's definitely something I can work after highschool.

You do realize that you CAN change your reputation DURING high school right? If you start having a little fun, no one's going to call you out, I promise.

[traindom]

Hmm, I never thought of it being that dynamic haha. I've actually grown out of my shell these years. I can keep a conversation hah; I used to be really spiteful and introverted. So I'd say I have progressed. I'll sure try though.

[canadiankid]

You can definitly change. Don't get discouraged when your rep lags behind your actions because it will catch up, people just take a while to change their minds. But yeah, it's amazing how much you can change for the better in a short time.

[Nick]

Mar 4, 2011 19:40:00 GMT -5 traindom said:

Hmm, I never thought of it being that dynamic haha. I've actually grown out of my shell these years. I can keep a conversation hah; I used to be really spiteful and introverted. So I'd say I have progressed. I'll sure try though.

Oh, shit. I thought that exact same thought exactly a year ago. It's gonna be a hella fun year bro!

If I had any advice for you to help you out a little faster: All the thoughts that enter your mind that you think would be fun to do, DO THEM. Don't hold yourself your back. You're funny and creative. For example, when you think of a funny response to something the teacher says, don't mutter it under your breath or hold it back, SAY IT

Or if you have something to throw away but you don't want to do it, hand it off to the next chick next to you and tell her to. Do everything that comes to mind if you even WONDER if it would be fun.

There's some sexual examples, too, but just letting you know. Do all the cool things you think off.

Then again maybe I'm the only one that thinks this stuff...

Edit: If you are as similar to me as I think(I always compare everyone to myself ), than if you're not working out, start. The energy boost is INSANE.

Also, for more reputation reassurance, my rep in school has changed more in the last week than it has since school started.

Good luck bro!

[traindom]

Thanks man! I'll work at it haha. Just thinking back to all those funny comments I could have said hah.