timmywimmy
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Post by timmywimmy on Feb 22, 2011 16:25:35 GMT -5
I know theres a few posts about these but i dont know how most kf the would work in my situation because most of them you need to get them together problem is they never talk! They say their "dating" but we were chilling in a group before school she and him were in the group not a hug a look or anything yet everytime I try to esclate she says "i have a boyfriend" its retarded
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Grape
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Post by Grape on Feb 23, 2011 16:03:37 GMT -5
"hey i'm just being friendly" if you really want to..
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timmywimmy
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Post by timmywimmy on Feb 23, 2011 22:33:23 GMT -5
Sorry grape i dont understand what that is supposed to mean its probably really obvious im just clueless
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Nick
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Post by Nick on Feb 23, 2011 22:47:32 GMT -5
I think that's what you're supposed to say after she says "I have a boyfriend." I agree. Just blow it off. Act like you would as if she didn't have a boyfriend, and "I have a boyfriend" just makes it a fun challenge. Don't worry about Boyfriend Destroying methods. If you're able to escalate with the girl, she won't stay with him. Even if she does, who cares Good Luck
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Post by canadiankid on Feb 23, 2011 23:08:14 GMT -5
Yeah man, just don't make a big deal of it. If you game her well she won't give a shit although personally I'm not in the business of breaking up a relationship for hook ups, only if I like the girl.
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owl
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Post by owl on Feb 23, 2011 23:15:01 GMT -5
Just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score friend. Although I don't condone breaking up couples, I've have done it in the past (shame shame shame). Act nonchalant towards their relationship. And, like canadian said, if you game her well enough, her boyfriend won't be a problem.
If you make known your intentions, get ready for some consequences. Again, I'd advise against BF destroying, but I understand where you're coming from.
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Validus
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Post by Validus on Feb 23, 2011 23:20:49 GMT -5
+1 about what these guys keep saying...
Although I used a BF destroyer on my current girl first day we chilled...
They can be fucking powerful.. BE CAREFUL
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Grape
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Post by Grape on Feb 23, 2011 23:50:51 GMT -5
Seriously though, girls who cheat can get the fuck out.
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Post by canadiankid on Feb 24, 2011 0:09:35 GMT -5
Yeah I agree Grape. I would never date a girl who cheated, to me you need trust respect and honesty for a successful relationship. Owl - Dont feel bad, I have to. I just don't anymore cause I feel like a scumbag. Validus - I agree. Ive used them before and for future reference Timmy, you don't need the bf to be there.
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Post by RMO on Feb 24, 2011 1:44:49 GMT -5
I agree with grape. But after doing some BF destroying, which is incredibly easy with fo-dating (the kind you see in highschool) It simply being friendly and gaming her the same no matter what her relationship status is. Congruency is key.
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timmywimmy
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Post by timmywimmy on Feb 24, 2011 15:35:56 GMT -5
Ive tired that it just donest work this guy probs knows about pick-up to problem is he had cheated on her and i like her so technically im helping her
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