GayOLDACCOUNT
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Registered: Oct 27, 2008 2:27:42 GMT -5
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Post by GayOLDACCOUNT on Nov 6, 2008 0:02:43 GMT -5
ok.... heres the flow
I used to be like this kid people could connect with, blah blah you know?
But today ive been noticing alot of people are reacting less as "oh hai whats up?" and more of a dislike to me.
If your lost, think about it this way i yelled out in class today "Mrs thompson, mrs thompson on a very very serious note, EVERYONE HUSH, THIS IS SERIOUS (people were talking and its history class so we were discussing the election and i said) so.... say in 4 years the preisdent nommiee wanted me has his vice president, would you vote for me???" and everyone in the class yelled NOOOOOOO
You know if your liked people are like "oh yeah!!! totally!"
So... not only this but this one bitch who i dont like....doesnt like me. and its like spreading from her to other girls.
So what should I do about this???
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sylar
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Registered: Oct 3, 2008 19:56:16 GMT -5
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Post by sylar on Nov 6, 2008 0:30:20 GMT -5
I don't know you obviously, but just be positive. Be positive to everyone. Avoid negativity altogether. Constantly be introducing positive, value-added threads. I'm not saying kiss everyone's ass, but do not have any grudges, unless someone is threatening your safety or some weird shit like that.
As far as that girl you hate, try to turn a positive into a negative. The key to changing the way that women think is to CHANGE HER MOOD, NOT HER MIND. Try to be nice to her, and bring fun and value to her. If she's consistantly rejecting that, it's her problem. In the long term, this will change everyone's perception of you.
In summary: --avoid negativity --proactively give value to people
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mystic
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Registered: Oct 24, 2008 21:14:34 GMT -5
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Post by mystic on Nov 6, 2008 12:54:49 GMT -5
i agree with what sylar says. if i may add also try to do something nice in the school...like if a meeting is coming up in school..or a speaker is coming ask to interview them infront of the school. it shows alot of courage and shows that you are an interesting person. get involved in the school. Also make friends...but as sylar says "dont kiss ass" simply be like ay whats up to people...or when your with your friends and you dont know a girl or guy be like to your friends that kno them "ay dont be rude and introduce us"...then stack on that. the girl that is a bitch, that is a good one simply befriend her. it will be tough if your not strong gamed, but just do not let her actions get to you. i believe that she is seeing that your being effected by what she is saying so simply dont react. Mystic
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SenorBubbz
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Registered: Oct 22, 2008 17:04:34 GMT -5
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Post by SenorBubbz on Nov 6, 2008 17:16:54 GMT -5
Did they say no in a funny/joking manner or was it like, "NOOOOOO, YOU SUCK, GTFO!" And like everyone is saying, just be positive. Befriend everyone. And didn't you just get into that school? Maybe it's because people have gotten used to you and your entertainment got old. Change it up once in a while.
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