Extreme One-itis...Love maybe?

[Zomga48]

Guys I need your help with this...Ask any questions you might have and I'll tell you but this is the overview:

So this girl who has been my friend since like 1st grade was my best friend who was a girl, and I realy really liked her last year but I didn't know about this and I fucked it up really badly. So now I hadn't talked to her in like 5months and I don't have her in any of my classes this year.

But the other day was a new beginning, I talked to her very briefly as we were leaving school, it was quite possibly the hardest thing I've ever done concerning girls. I was fucking nervous as hell and nearly shit myself I was so scared. But I did it. It was kinda awkward and I really wasn't feeling confidant at all but I did it. So now I'm thinking I'll be able to talk to her more often without it being such a big deal...I really miss hanging with her I'd be happy if we just became good friends again. Last year I thought she liked me though she was giving me tons of IOI's so then I got all retarded and effed it up, I hope I still have a chance though, I think I can do this.

So basically, I'm asking you, my fellow PUA's...what the hell do I do now? She's the only girl that I draw a blank when around her...I really like her a lot and like I said, I've known her for a long time and she used to be a very good friend of mine, I just want to fix our relationship and finish what I started very poorly last year.

P.S. - 50th post, I'm a sophomore!

[Luc]

Well do you just wanna be friends with her?
If that's what you want, go about what you usually do to pick up women, but avoid SOI's and stay away from kino, atleast stay away from escalating to much.
She will probably be pretty willing to be friends with you again. Girls HATE losing friends more than anything, so this shouldn't be too hard.

Gaming her would be a different story though...
When you're gaming her, you want to move a little more slowly. Remember, you hurt her last time. Otherwise, go with some cocky/funny, some push pull...The usual, but toned down


I hope i helped
--Luc

[Zomga48]

Well I didn't hurt her, I just wasn't being myself and she didn't like how I was acting..she was giving me IOI's when I was my normal funny self before I got all gay and messed us up.

[Zomga48]

Guys help me out, my homecoming dance is tomorrow, I could use some pointers! Thanks.