kolby2011
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Post by kolby2011 on Mar 12, 2011 0:56:59 GMT -5
In regards to your girl problem, at this point your not socially approved to be with them, you should be able to get some girls throughout the school with your appearance, but if you want the hb 9 and 10's of the popular crowd you have to gain social approval before they will accept you, believe me they have plenty of guys after them, there aren't going to take a hit for a guy who isn't socially approved
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perceverance
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Post by perceverance on Mar 12, 2011 1:16:42 GMT -5
i dont think you guys understand, i dont use anybody. I genuinely want to be in their group because these people are like me. i feel more comfortable when i am with them because they just tend to have a good time.
In regards to the girls, i am pretty socially approved. i know around 50-60% of the school and we have like 800-900 kids at our school. I have gotten to the point where sometimes im not the one saying hi, they are the one's saying hi to me. I am pretty approved by their whole group because most of them know me and talk to me but i want to take it to a higher level and actually hang out with them after school, party, do crazy shit, whatever. In fact, I think there are more probability's that they arn't sure if they want to have a relationship with me because they think im a player.
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Post by canadiankid on Mar 12, 2011 1:19:40 GMT -5
I'm not saying you use them, I was just commenting on kolbys solution. If you already have decent in school relationships then transition to out of school ones. It's not that hard, I PROMISE.
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perceverance
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Post by perceverance on Mar 12, 2011 6:28:57 GMT -5
Ok here's one more question: if I contribute value and am pretty well liked around school, why am I never invited to party's or out of school activities with my close friends? Not even my closest friends invite me despite the fact that they invite most of the other group of friends they have.
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Post by Contempt on Mar 12, 2011 9:28:50 GMT -5
probably because they've never hung out with you outside of school. You should initiate something with them. I don't invite kids i just see around school to parties n shit cause i don't know if their any fun outside of school.
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kolby2011
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Post by kolby2011 on Mar 12, 2011 15:18:06 GMT -5
U can't be afraid to put yourself out there, basically what it sounds like is your just standing their waiting to be invited. Don't do that try to initiate some shit, outside of school, simple stuff, like movies, playing sports, going to eat... whatever just put yourself out there
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