How do YOU game?

[perceverance]

So I just want to get an idea of the variety of ways to game girls. Let me know how you guys go about seducing girls, from the opener to the closer.

Also, how would you use "cocky funny" and is it effective based on your guy's experiences.

[Nick]

I go with the direct, funny, sexual approach. I try to keep it fun and leave the small talk to the other guys I try to stay high energy and use lots of sexual innuendo along with being the leader. Around guys, I try not to be a dick at all but I'm currently working on being more alpha.

For variety: My friend uses the pity party gaming method. That is, he acts "cute" and sometimes he almost looks depressed. He ONLY acts like that around girl (If you're watching the new The Real World episodes than it's kind of like Adam, the player dude). It works really well because the chicks always initiate conversation with him because he looks so sad. As soon as their hooked though, he games hardcore kino.

I'm trying to drift a little a way from the cocky in cocky funny. You obviously need to be confident in yourself, but as the saying goes "The rich man doesn't need to tell people's he's rich", so why do you need to tell people you're confident? Sometimes though, it's funny to be cocky, so I'll try to hit those. Just remember though, it's very important not be funny for HER but for YOURSELF or else you'll just end up making a show of yourself.

That's my 3 cents

[amarok]

I mainly focus on getting relationships, so my method (in both of only two times I actually tried to get the girl) makes them think I'm absolutely perfect.

I'll open the girl on facebook with something like "Hey, I haven't talked to you before have I?" Then as soon as the "what's up" pleasantries are over with I weed her out by saying "Alright, I'm gonna get this out of the way now. Do you do drugs? Alcohol?" Answer should be no to both, then I proceed to just have fun with talking to her. Finding an interest that you both have, and a creative, thought provoking, and beautiful one.

I always tell her to text me after this conversation hits a peak. She'll, naturally, inform me that she doesn't have my number. So I'll tease her about having to ask me, then when she does, reversing and "vocally" wondering why she even had to ask. Texting gets more sexual, but I'm usually not nearly as so as the other guys on here. I do a lot of imagery, since I'm a writer. When she asks me things like what my favorite thing to do in the summer is, I tell her "I really want to go to the beach on a warm night, walk along the water, and maybe even see some of the seals and turtles." The key to these things is Showing, not telling. Verbalize things, don't list them. The other key is to make these things that are inherently beautiful or romantic. Every girl wants to walk along the beach at night with the perfect guy. They'll let you fill this spot.

I use the cocky almost as a joke itself. Small things like "...because I'm just that sexy guy." Similar to Gay's Love method, they'll laugh at it like the confidence is a breath of fresh laugh gas, then (very quickly, actually) they'll accept it, play along or agree. That's really the only way I use the cocky part.

In both of my past two relationships, they tell me I'm perfect, and they even question me as to why I'm so perfect. So that's how my style works.

[canadiankid]

Nice, I'm gonna have to try that amarok.

Currently I'm pretty cocky and I'm definitely the prize. I bust her balls in the words of David D. I rely heavily on social proof since that's what high school game revolves around. I make the girls feel safe and secure, such that they don't worry about me telling everyone and them getting called a whore. Attraction then comfort tis the way I roll.