Drugs & drinking... negative?

[Season]

hello

i'm going to begin this thread by telling you my little story, but the main question is : do women think that taking drugs (weed) and drinking is negative?

i've been smoking and drinking for almost a year now and it changed a lot my lifestyle. i began chilling and going to parties with people older than me (social proof), it made me meet some HBs that weren't afraid of flirting, and it literally built a new facet of my personality. i've became fucking careless, i'm not afraid of living adventures, i've became comfortable with new people, etc. plus, some HBs that i knew before entering in the drug game told me that i changed a lot etc but they never mention negative things. exemple (i would have banged the girl if she wasnt in a relationship):

sofia (L) says:
i think you're FUCKING thin xd
its crazy how in like
5 months
you got ALOT more beautiful
like sometimes i see you at school i dont recognize you
im like ''shit who is ... MIHAI?! ''
LOL
Mihai says:
hahaha

to sum up : drinking and smoking changed a big part of my life. but what do women (i'm talking about normal ones, who aren't in the drug game) think about it? i've never cared of this, but now the question is playing in my brain.

any thoughts? please discuss

[Adam]

I say it depends how conditioned they are by their parents.

Side note: Girls will generally be more accepting to drinking than weed. I've known people who drink a hella lot but look down on me for getting blem once in a while (even though drinking is worst for you). So I say alot less ppl look down on drinking. (cause their use to seeing their parents do it)

[Nick]

There's pretty much a wall between the two groups of people.

If someone doesn't do drugs they most likely hate druggies. If someone doesn't drink, they most likely hate drinkers. On the other side, if someone does drugs or drinks, than you're just the same as everyone else whether you do drugs/drink or not.

Although, if you get a chick to like you, if she finds out the right way, it won't really matter. Once a chick is in to you, you can pretty much get away with everything.

Simply, yes, most 'normal' chicks think negatively of drinking or drugging. If you're seeing positive effects, though, than do whatever you want.

[rakoon]

it did same thing to me except that i'm realy against drugs

drinking gives u a nice experience of teen life style and all that and will be good until like 25 when you get to be more mature

but drugs and all that normaly influence realy bad on studies and you your nice life ends there
so drinking all those changes you had on life style are probably from drinking
your grades going down are probably because of drugs

my opinion

[Adam]

Deleted post cause it was useless and was only their to protect my ego cause it felt threatened (whichit was not)

[Season]

please don't argue about ''how bad is weed'' or ''how alcohol is worst then weed'' that's not the point

i find your opinion interesting Bolt, in fact i think that the social aspect of going to parties and chilling is attractive to women (think about the guys that you see in the streets, they act tough and show that they're the shit. THEY DO GET PUSSY). i can even relate to my personal experience and say that these guys have a lot of self esteem and confidence by just hanging out together and not bothering about everything else. as i read my paragraph i realize how unclear it is, but all i wanted to say is that these guys have experience. they know how to start the party, live adventures, they're never bored. girls want to have interesting and dangerous experiences, and these kind of guys can give them this and even more

[traindom]

Would you say that you could do without the drugs and alcohol now? I mean, you practically have liquid courage running through your veins. Do you feel you can act confident without that stuff in your system? If your anxiety is good and gone, that's fantastic. Drugs are not needed to have a great lifestyle. They are more like a crutch, depending on the purpose (whether recreational or to subdue anxiety).

It also depends on the women. I know people who are total drug enthusiasts but I get along with them. You will be fine for the most part as long as you do not force your lifestyle on the girls (which is an obvious duh haha).

[Season]

well actually, what i meant is that hanging out with the guys that i talked about above (let's call them the bad guys) TAUGHT me how to have fun and gave me confidence. i don't need to be drunk or high to speak to women, that's really not what i meant

[RMO]

conditioning is key. My girlfriend grew up as a stoner, she stayed away from drugs, but she defintley has that vibe and most of her friends are that way. Her last boyfriend was a sad sad little fuck of a boy who tried to use suicide threats to destroy the slut defense and his overall stoner nature poisoned the relationship.

That said she know hates drugs. However I am completely honest about my drug use, and be knowledgeable about the substances, physically and socially, and not making a big deal about them, just another part of life, she accepts it and we have never had issues.

[simplemike]

Thanks for the tips.. I loved reading..

[perceverance]

^ do us a favor and stop spamming all the threads.

[Eastcoast]

From my personal experience. Most girls drink in high school(at least the ones your gonna wanna be hooking up with). And if they dont they usually can at least tolerate being around drunk people.
Your gonna wanna be responsible with your liquor either way. Everyone gets really sick every once and a while, but try to grow up and know how to handle your shit. Cause if your a liability that no fun for anyone.

With weed its a whole different ballgame. I have found that wayy less girls smoke it. Of course your gonna find some girls who are stoners, and some that HATE being around the stuff. Before I announce my opinions to the girl I kinda screen her with some questions to feel out. When i get a feel for what they like i'll feed the same thing to them. (WOW WE HAVE SO MUCH IN COMMON) Am I a douche bag for doing this? proobably but i dont really give a shit. I've had girls going great until i announced I love weed and it just completely changes the dynamic.

All in all do what the fuck you want and it should be fine!