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Post by milehighclubber on Mar 24, 2011 6:01:15 GMT -5
Mate, just being there at her party is better than giving her what she wants. If you do give her a gift that both of you know that she will like then it's too generic and wont generate attraction - if any.
If you've been on and off with each other then that would mean that you didn't even escalate. All of your conversations with each other (however amusing or seem to be going somewhere) were poopy. Teasing, playing and laughing about each other and what's happening to each other never makes anything happen. By my verdict you're already in the friend-zone (which I and many others have fallen into when first implementing this) if I'm not mistaken.
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- You didn't escalate when the time occurred, so now she's bored of you and doesn't see you as a possible love interest anymore.
- You're in the FRIEND ZONE. Can't get out there I'm afraid, considering you're new at this.
- Like what I said, better to not get her anything. Not anything that may attempt to show your feelings to her.
- Since you've known her for so long... Look for someone else.
Hopefully the others can provide a more detailed answer.
Cheers!
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Post by Nick on Mar 24, 2011 6:41:22 GMT -5
You better not buy her anything, and if you do, you shouldn't do it to "get the message across" or "shows my feelings clearly". AFCs buy women things to show that they care about them and hope that they reciprocate. They won't.
Hang out with her but DO NOT buy her anything. Please
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Post by insanal on Mar 24, 2011 9:00:49 GMT -5
in AFC style i posted this last night, very tired and not thinking clearly what i was portraying me and this girl to be. so in regret i deleted my post because it sounds stupid to me rereading it.
i obviously didn't post why i'm still in this and not ditching it for the obvious friend zone signs, she begs me to hang out, everytime i see her theres always some form of kino (hands, hips, touch, arm around), and i only see her around campus 2-3 times a week, her body language is always positive, etc. im the one controlling the escalation, but im not escalating you know? the whole birthday thing is a terrible idea, which im now aware of, but i dont know what to do with her.
routines dont work with her, you know?
sorry if this is in the wrong section, i did read through some rules, and the board stuff but i am new so bear with me. its turned from a general question into more specific help.
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Post by Contempt on Mar 24, 2011 9:46:48 GMT -5
You shouldn't be relying on routines to get her, they will get you no where. As soon as the routine is over you'll turn back into your old self. Develop some inner game, some confidence and some natural game, that way you don't even need routines.
Also, if shes giving you kino and asking you to hang out, those are not friendzone signs. The only thing not happening here is you escalating. She probably actually likes you but its starting to wear off cause your not going anywhere with her and shes getting bored. Trust me, girls get bored quick. Escalate man!
Good luck,
-Contempt
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insanal
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Post by insanal on Mar 24, 2011 10:34:08 GMT -5
Ok then, I guess what I need to know is what do I have to do to escalate?
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Post by DanZy on Mar 24, 2011 10:47:37 GMT -5
kino,kino,kino,kino,kino,kino,kino,kino,kino,kino,kino,kino,kino,kino,kino,kino,kino,kino,kino,kino and maybe a little more kino
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Post by perceverance on Mar 24, 2011 18:12:01 GMT -5
She probably actually likes you but its starting to wear off cause your not going anywhere with her and shes getting bored. Trust me, girls get bored quick. Escalate man! Lets say im playing hard to get. Would this apply as well? because girls and people in general tend to want things that they cant have. would she get bored quickly if you play hard to get? |
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Post by insanal on Mar 27, 2011 21:46:41 GMT -5
She probably actually likes you but its starting to wear off cause your not going anywhere with her and shes getting bored. Trust me, girls get bored quick. Escalate man! Lets say im playing hard to get. Would this apply as well? because girls and people in general tend to want things that they cant have. would she get bored quickly if you play hard to get? my question exactly. and any idea for escalation or proper setting to escalate on her birthday? |
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