dillywilly
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Post by dillywilly on Mar 27, 2011 18:45:40 GMT -5
So this chick I've been really into lately has a bf. I've known her for a while now so were both comfortable with each other. After a long conversation she admited she liked me and wish we could do stuff together, but she has that pesky boyfriend. We ended up vid chattin naked (which she said she doesnt wanna do again cause she "feels bad for her boyfriend") and im realizing i really like this girl. Im not really askin for you guys to tell me "move on dude theres other girls" or "if shes cheatin on him she'll cheat on you". Im Asking you guys what my next move should be to get her away from him (the bf) and closer to me?
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catalisto
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Post by catalisto on Mar 27, 2011 18:56:13 GMT -5
The next move is on her. Tell her to dump her bf for you .
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dillywilly
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Post by dillywilly on Mar 27, 2011 18:58:14 GMT -5
thats askin alot tho isnt it? like askin that too soon would ruin it all wouldnt it?
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kolby2011
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Post by kolby2011 on Mar 27, 2011 19:27:57 GMT -5
Escalate with her in person, definitely throw in alot of kino, when the whole bf thing comes up ignore it don't let it effect you
Ask her out you don't have to put the "date" label on it, but overall just try to spend more time with her
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infamous93
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Post by infamous93 on Mar 27, 2011 20:32:18 GMT -5
^exactly, say "hey we should chill some time"
Take her out and escalate from there.
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Post by Contempt on Mar 27, 2011 20:53:36 GMT -5
you just need to get with her in person. I mean, why stop if your getting some? If your good enough she'll get rid of her boyfriend herself.
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RMO
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Post by RMO on Mar 28, 2011 1:01:53 GMT -5
Treat a girl the same no matter her relationship status, and you will go far
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dillywilly
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Post by dillywilly on Apr 6, 2011 13:50:15 GMT -5
so she dumped her bf today, and the night before was asking me if i had a thing with any other girls. So how how long should i wait to make a real move?
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RMO
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Post by RMO on Apr 6, 2011 14:15:00 GMT -5
you should have made a move before then. GO GO GO!
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dillywilly
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Post by dillywilly on Apr 6, 2011 19:21:53 GMT -5
lol well i didnt wanna push it while she still all emotional about the breakup and shit
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RMO
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Post by RMO on Apr 6, 2011 19:38:54 GMT -5
you should have pushed before the break up and shit. Dont over think things, just escalate, dont be a pussy and escalate!
be careful though, your sitting in rebound territory now.
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dillywilly
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Post by dillywilly on Apr 8, 2011 14:16:04 GMT -5
so today she let me feel up her ass and legs under the table in class, but doesn't want to hug in front of people bc "me and kyle (boyfriend) just broke up 2 days ago". sup with that?
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RMO
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Post by RMO on Apr 9, 2011 3:30:21 GMT -5
get the PUSSY! highschool is a social game, she wants to not be a whore, let have her the moment, but dont let that keep you from getting her.
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dillywilly
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Post by dillywilly on Apr 13, 2011 13:53:00 GMT -5
so last night me and her had a long convo about what we want from each other, which ends in her saying "I like you Matt, you know that, but me and kyle just broke up so i wouldnt wanna go out right now. but if a little while if you would still wanna date, make asking me out a suprise" or something like that. So basically i have to keep from fucking up for 2 or 3 weeks until im able to ask her out, right?
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Post by spe3d on Apr 13, 2011 14:37:47 GMT -5
don't jump through her hoops. be the leader
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