She just won't give it up

[kolby2011]

This hb9 I've been talking to alot lately has a boyfriend, I pretty much worked her pretty hard and she still won't budge on the whole giving up on her boyfriend who she only sees once a month (in college)

So admittedly i've was oneitising over her, but finally I was like fuck it she holding me down, and I started to talk to alot of other girls, especially in our mutual classes.

This hb9 is really into me, she has thrown every IOI in the book at me, kino, body language, everything, but like I said she got a boyfriend and thats that. Anyways I don't reward her with any of my time anymore, she initiates everything, she isn't giving it up. Like today whenever another girl was talking to me, "hey your look pretty tan today blah blah blah" she comes up and has her hands all over me, she does this all the time btw.

Anyone had a girl like this? I mean I like her, and she likes me, but she is content where she is. Should I just man up and tell her like it is or what? Suggestions would be appreciated.

[taxman]

Dude, I can relate to this. This chick I know would do all that shit and I would throw A-grade game and stuff but when its closing time, we 1 on 1 and holding each other she tells me she has a boyfriend .. Which she's seen like 3 times and never kissed .. It pissed me off and I ploughed like an ox to no avail like 2 weeks ago I'm at a mall doing my thing and she's all over, prob the best advice I could give that's fuckin you over is the dynamic between the two of you if I could say. She's smoking and digs you but you see her as the prize so there's no harmony. Sit back and continue to do you but visualize yourself as the prize and your giving her a shot to win the lottery, she will feel it and there will come a moment when she wants it but you gotta be cool about the whole situation no "omg I can't believe this is happening" and in the back of your head your thinking about her bf. Hope it helps bud

[Contempt]

^ Its your job to lead and kiss.

Kolby i'd say just have her around as a toy, she won't give you the respect to date you, so why should you treat her like she is. If shes into you and is giving you IOIs, get some from her, regardless of whether or not she has a boyfriend or not. If she's willing to do stuff with you, its obvious that her boyfriend isn't giving her what she needs.

[taxman]

^ yes it is the guys job to lead and kiss but in the situation skillset isn't required. It can't be pull the whole way, if she's working for it its okay sometimes its gotta happen but in this situation he HAS to be the prize

[kolby2011]

The thing is I really haven't done shit to pull this girl to me, we just have great chemistry and are attracted to each other, but I've when I escalate with her its like "well I have a boyfriend, and I don't want to ruin it," I just blow it off.

But the thing is usually when a girl is like hey I have a boyfriend, she usually is done with escalating with you, but this girl just doesn't stop, we've had the whole boyfriend talk, but she still insists to be talk, touch, and spend time with me, even though at this point and time she doesn't want to date me. It's kind of a half-ass relationship at the moment, because I'm like her fling when her bf isn't around.

Should I push the envelope (ignore the boyfriend) and see where it goes, or should I just put her on hold while she works things out with her boyfriend, and continue on with my life?

[Contempt]

Uhh kolby i'm pretty sure i'm still answering with what i said above. Just get some from her, who gives a shit who shes formally dating.

As for what taxman said, i have know fucking clue what your talking about. If your saying that you think you shouldn't go for the kiss because its a pull, i dont think your right. You should go for the kiss because its the dominant thing to do and it shows you go for what you want. Anything else is just either hiding your interest (something you should never do as it reduces your masculinity to about zero) or pussying out. Either which of is bad. Of course you have to lead up with appropriate game and comfort so she has attraction for you and won't put up LMR. Yeah, with your gaming, you want to act like your the prize, but your should also NEVER hide your masculinity or sacrifice dominance. When it comes time for that kiss, you have to do it. It seals the deal. If she rejects you, who gives a fuck? Think about it, even if you just have mediocre game the worst shes going to say is "Uhhh, i don't feel like i want this right now".

[canadiankid]

^what that smart mother fucker said

[RMO]

Hb "I have a boyfriend"

Prodigy "I understand" keeps on escalating

Hb "I dont want to get in a commited relationship with you"

Prodigy "Works for me" bangs the shit out of said girl

You both have that sexual chemistry, just fucking go for it, dont let labels get in your way

[Adam]

^lol prodigy

Its kinda like how mystery puts it.

Girl: We shouldn't be doing this

Mystery: I know i should stop (keeps on escalating)


Or if she keeps giving you lmr you can:

Girl: I said i have a boy friend stop

You: (abruptly stop escalating) ok (gwt up walk away)

This is my last reserve. Sometimes works cause it shows your will to walk away. Also cause girls almost never mean what they say

[kolby2011]

fuck it, she will be banged within two weeks... don't worry!!!

[Contempt]

^ definitely what we like to hear!


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