whosyourdaddy1
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Post by whosyourdaddy1 on Apr 7, 2011 21:45:09 GMT -5
hey guys im prety new here jus looking for sum advice and to see if i handling things correctly. so im 17 and ive been with my girl friend for 3 months but ive been close(like besfriends but i liked her) for abit more than a year. i noe for sure that she really likes me alot. neway, the other day we made plans to buy sumthing she really wanted (it was a couple thing, for both of us) , so we wer looking thruout the week and then we planned to buy it on thurs. on wed nite she jus cancels it cuz she sed she cbbs catching a bus and planned to hang with her friends. i made a big deal of it,cuz she has done if 1nce of 2wice before...hmm she sed its natural and shes always done it. wat do u guys rkn cuz we argued for quite a wile over it with me telling her how i felt about her jus dogging me. please advice ?  |
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whosyourdaddy1
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Post by whosyourdaddy1 on Apr 7, 2011 21:46:19 GMT -5
oh btw she told me she was gna hang with friends..she asked me then i was already agnry so i cbged
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kolby2011
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Post by kolby2011 on Apr 8, 2011 1:34:50 GMT -5
Sorry but can you retype this correctly
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whosyourdaddy1
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Post by whosyourdaddy1 on Apr 8, 2011 20:44:34 GMT -5
my bads.
the problem i had with her was that i get pissed wen she makes plans with me, and cancels them last minute cuz she cant be bothered( eg to catch a bus, and she wanted to go out with friends). she genuinely likes me alot tho, jus that sumtimes she is 'only thinking about herself'.
so i reacted by getting annoyed and got sorta angry with her.
should i try to not make as many plans in the future and wait for her to make them herself ?
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kolby2011
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Post by kolby2011 on Apr 8, 2011 21:43:03 GMT -5
Don't get to involved or caught up in her every move, you don't have to chase the girl or "put the pussy on a pedestal" if she keeps ditching you, fuck her... move on, don't put all your eggs in one basket, make her put effort into the relationship if she really wants you
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whosyourdaddy1
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Post by whosyourdaddy1 on Apr 9, 2011 4:21:50 GMT -5
thx bro (y)
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perceverance
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Post by perceverance on Apr 9, 2011 4:25:45 GMT -5
I agree with kolby
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whosyourdaddy1
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Post by whosyourdaddy1 on Apr 9, 2011 6:20:10 GMT -5
ahh ok thx guys. just one more question tho. u guys rkn i shud make her put the effort into the relationship yeh? wen she does things like wat i described, then it feels like she doesnt care and that im valuing her then she does me.
but she has at times put ALOT of effort in the past , eg making extravagent hand made cards, organsing my birthday party etc baking cookies. so it does seem like weve already been established in a ltr.
do u guys have much advice. i appreciate it O:
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Post by canadiankid on Apr 9, 2011 9:51:12 GMT -5
Please type everything in proper english in the future. It makes life 42.3571 times easier.
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whosyourdaddy1
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Post by whosyourdaddy1 on Apr 9, 2011 18:54:48 GMT -5
ahhk sorry guys.
what i meant is, this girl puts alot of effort into out relationship at times, but other times she seems like she cant be bothered. Even so, should i back off ?
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Post by amarok on Apr 9, 2011 22:05:06 GMT -5
I'm gonna go out on a limb here and carefully suggest talking to her about it. Some girls don't really realize that they're doing something wrong, and need a little kick in the ass to realize it. Everyone is guilty of something like this. If she already made plans with you, she'd better have a legitimate reason to flake, and if she doesn't care enough to get her act together even after you warn her, then screw her--not literally of course.
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whosyourdaddy1
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Post by whosyourdaddy1 on Apr 10, 2011 6:19:03 GMT -5
ahhh ok thx guys appreciate it alot ! haha learning quite abit eheh |
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