Post by RMO on Apr 9, 2011 15:26:59 GMT -5
A little talk on openers
I'm not going to lie to you, opening sucks donkey dong. I don;t care if have opened hundreds of people opening is still going to suck, just live with it. A million years ago our ancestors had the same fear of opening, but for them it was helpful, you were going to be in the same tribe, see the same females, for your entire life, if you have to open you better be damn near perfect or you are fucked. But today, today I could go out looking for HB 10's and fuck a dozen every day, and still of tens of thousands of women left after I die, and the only place that you will see the girls again is a place where openers aren't at all important is in highschool. More on the mechanics of highschool game in a later article.
Back to the issue at hand, opening. I need you to wipe out all you prior assumptions on opening, you don't but the girl a drink, you don't neg her, you don't play this magic mind game to get her interested. Most of the goddamn time shes in a place, and shes dressed for, where she can meet guys. She wants a funny, charismatic motherfucker to talk to her and make her feel good. Be that man and just open.
You need to have three mindsets when you open. First off you are the prize, and what you want to do is the best option, your bored and she is here to fix that. Second openers dont mean shit, it is just you checking and making sure the girl isn't crazy as all hell, it allows you to screen the girls you want to talk to. The last is to LOVE rejection. Whats the worst that could happen if you open a girl, you'll get rejected! But how is she going to do that? not talk to you, or is she going to bitch you out? I find almost all forms of rejection to be hilarious when the girl does it. I'm like 'really?' its just so goddamn funny. So from my perspective the worst that can happen is you'll have a good laugh.
In my humble opinion the best opener is 'hi' or 'hey'. It simple, you draw her attention, and you can lock your eyes. I will talk more about tension, but in short there is always a tension between you and every women you will ever meet, just dont do the things that would elssen the tension. You don't have to talk alot, just say hey, lock eyes, maybe begin some light kino, and do what you want to do, have some fun.
Now most guys have an issue transitioning from opening to conversation because they use some canned opener, but if you use a natural opener and just say hi to her, the transition almost means nothing. If you have the attitude of I'm looking for quality chicks, and that you can leave when you get bored, she begins to qualify herself, and this is especially funny with incredibly hot chicks.
But honestly guys, openers dont mean shit, and the only thing you need to think about when you open is, I'm going to have fun, and I just don't give a shit what happens while I'm having fun. This internal vibe spreads like a virus and soon the external vibe is just fun playful, and your game is so much easier.
I'm not going to lie to you, opening sucks donkey dong. I don;t care if have opened hundreds of people opening is still going to suck, just live with it. A million years ago our ancestors had the same fear of opening, but for them it was helpful, you were going to be in the same tribe, see the same females, for your entire life, if you have to open you better be damn near perfect or you are fucked. But today, today I could go out looking for HB 10's and fuck a dozen every day, and still of tens of thousands of women left after I die, and the only place that you will see the girls again is a place where openers aren't at all important is in highschool. More on the mechanics of highschool game in a later article.
Back to the issue at hand, opening. I need you to wipe out all you prior assumptions on opening, you don't but the girl a drink, you don't neg her, you don't play this magic mind game to get her interested. Most of the goddamn time shes in a place, and shes dressed for, where she can meet guys. She wants a funny, charismatic motherfucker to talk to her and make her feel good. Be that man and just open.
You need to have three mindsets when you open. First off you are the prize, and what you want to do is the best option, your bored and she is here to fix that. Second openers dont mean shit, it is just you checking and making sure the girl isn't crazy as all hell, it allows you to screen the girls you want to talk to. The last is to LOVE rejection. Whats the worst that could happen if you open a girl, you'll get rejected! But how is she going to do that? not talk to you, or is she going to bitch you out? I find almost all forms of rejection to be hilarious when the girl does it. I'm like 'really?' its just so goddamn funny. So from my perspective the worst that can happen is you'll have a good laugh.
In my humble opinion the best opener is 'hi' or 'hey'. It simple, you draw her attention, and you can lock your eyes. I will talk more about tension, but in short there is always a tension between you and every women you will ever meet, just dont do the things that would elssen the tension. You don't have to talk alot, just say hey, lock eyes, maybe begin some light kino, and do what you want to do, have some fun.
Now most guys have an issue transitioning from opening to conversation because they use some canned opener, but if you use a natural opener and just say hi to her, the transition almost means nothing. If you have the attitude of I'm looking for quality chicks, and that you can leave when you get bored, she begins to qualify herself, and this is especially funny with incredibly hot chicks.
But honestly guys, openers dont mean shit, and the only thing you need to think about when you open is, I'm going to have fun, and I just don't give a shit what happens while I'm having fun. This internal vibe spreads like a virus and soon the external vibe is just fun playful, and your game is so much easier.
