whosyourdaddy1
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Post by whosyourdaddy1 on Apr 10, 2011 20:28:09 GMT -5
yo guys my second thread in like 2 days xD
Ive been with my girlfriend for three months and ive been really close friends with her for about a year. I really like her and she also feels the same way im pretty sure.
The issue for me in this this relationship is that it feels as if we arent progressing anymore, physically, i mean. At the moment we hold hands and kiss etc however part of the problem is that we dont have a place to take it further. we used to make out behind this building at school with me feeling her up quite often until we got caught out(LOL).
Anyway, whenever we go out now it feels so unsatisfying for me, as we dont even makeout and i dont think shes as hungry for it as i am(although im sure she does like me). it would be ideal if she were feel the same way as me right. Should i just wait around until i my car license in 4 months ?>< Do you guys have any suggestions??? ( it does feel really bad for me tho, and i cant just tell her can i ?)
btw, going to each others houses isnt an option so yeahhh.
im afraid if we dont take it further , shell loose attraction/interest??
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Traxx
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Post by Traxx on Apr 10, 2011 23:28:28 GMT -5
There's always a friend's house , a local park, movies, a car if you have a permit, etc. There's plenty of possibilities around there. But it almost seems as if you're the one that's starting to lose interest
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perceverance
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Post by perceverance on Apr 11, 2011 1:35:34 GMT -5
^ what he said
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whosyourdaddy1
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Post by whosyourdaddy1 on Apr 11, 2011 2:55:25 GMT -5
what i want to ask is, is it normal for us to be going out and only making out say 1 out of 5 times or even less? i dont think im losing interest, because i find myself obsessed with what shes up to(i noe thats a bad thing ><) and i really dont want the relationship to end.
I hear that its best to escalate in the relationship quickly, like going from holding hands to kissing to fucking etc. however im not sure if thats posible the way things are going. i think she does value our relationship alot tho, as she proposed making a couple scrapbook(cheesy but i like) and has already put alot of efforts into it(the book).
what do u guys suggest i do to keep this long term and work out smoothly for both of us?
btw she can tell that im not happy but i cant jus say : do u wna fuck?
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DanZy
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Post by DanZy on Apr 11, 2011 5:06:47 GMT -5
Only 1 out of 5 times? Dude why are you still in there? If you're obsessed with her maybe you're coming off too strong. I don't really think she wants action just companionship
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whosyourdaddy1
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Post by whosyourdaddy1 on Apr 11, 2011 6:51:19 GMT -5
thanks for ur input guys appreciate it but i dont noe how be smooth about it. i mean, i cant just say: hey lets go into this corner so i can feel u up! the situation is that theres no opportunity to kiss and feel each other in public. i know u guys mentioned parks and movies, but a park is still public with heaps of kids running around and stuff. and also, shes quite 'shy' in public, like she wud used to get into it and be very passionate wen we had our private area behind the school. how do i go about it? sexual innuendo, hinting, or should i jus say it when it comes up in conversation( that i wana take it further? :S) the way i thought about doing it was making her want me, and turning her on. dno exactly what to do to acheive that at this stage.
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Post by canadiankid on Apr 11, 2011 8:37:47 GMT -5
There's no kids on a park at 11pm It's a relationship and as such you usually need to talk about your wish to "take it to the next level" if you haven't escalated early. If you can finger her, get right to the edge of orgasming. Then stop. Kiss her passionately then whisper in her ear that "I want to be inside you so bad". My buddy's gf was like moaning and told him to put it in. That's how he fucked his gf for her first time.
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spe3d
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Post by spe3d on Apr 11, 2011 18:33:05 GMT -5
I've read in many Pickup books to start escalating very early in the relationship or she'll put you in the group of guys shes not interested in having sex with so that may be the problem. I, myself, would just try to change myself and become more alpha. Just take control and be dominant. A sneaky way to get her more sexual is just to ask to eat her out. no girl can say no to that. then that will open up more doors for u bro.
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sleepy
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Post by sleepy on Apr 11, 2011 18:41:26 GMT -5
A sneaky way to get her more sexual is just to ask to eat her out. no girl can say no to that. A lot of girls are super self conscious, in fact some would rather give you a BJ then get oral from you just because their so uncomfy with their bodies
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