Being sweet...

[timmywimmy]

Alright so i think this is one subject i dont think i understand to well. I was talkibg to a hb 8 and my bro (they are really good friends) and she started talking about they guy shes interested in (interested she clains she doesnt like him) anyways she was saying hes so sweet when texting me but wont talk tp me in person. So if he doesnt talk to her im going to assume he is either A) attractive or B) his "sweeting texting" is winning her over. Npw then as i understand it being sweet is AFC because its pulling to much making her the prize and putting the pussy on the pedastal. So how is him being sweet winning her over especially through texting because it doesnt SEEM like it would/should work but in your guys expereince does it?

[kolby2011]

Not every girl is the same. You don't have to necessarily be a dick, or overally nice to get a girl, but attraction; some may think otherwise, plays a huge part in it. Some guys get girls purely on looks, others on personality, play to your advantages.

And if he is getting the girl than what does it matter if he is being sweet, its working apparently, he must not be as afc as you think if he is getting girls.

[timmywimmy]

Alright well i guess ill try being sweet to her see what happens

[Contempt]

i personally would game her normally. Don't change yourself just for a girl man.

[infamous93]

Game her regularly the time to be sweet is when she is your girlfriend

[Adam]

There is a fine line between being "nice" and "sweet"

[spe3d]

i have no clue what to say. sweet never works for me if the girl is super hot

[kolby2011]

There's a difference between being a puss and being sweet, being sweet is more of a 1 on 1 trait, when your with the girl.

At the same time your need to be alpha, more of a social trait, there is a major difference.

Through my experience the only way you can totally get a girl by being sweet is in movies, and those ugly chicks that I see walking around the school with AFC's.

[Adam]

^^totally untrue

Almost every girl ive pulled said that the reason they liked me is cuz im so sweet/nice. It works if you can pull it off im naturally sweet and thats probably never gonna change so it works for me. Girls want a balance of masculine and feminine traits. How come you think girls love it when a guy can cook or figureskate or dance

[timmywimmy]

Not saying im gonna change just saying i might throw in a few compliments here or their outta the blue im still gonna game her just like any other girl

[amarok]

Apr 14, 2011 6:24:22 GMT -5 Adam said:

^^totally untrue

Almost every girl ive pulled said that the reason they liked me is cuz im so sweet/nice. It works if you can pull it off im naturally sweet and thats probably never gonna change so it works for me. Girls want a balance of masculine and feminine traits. How come you think girls love it when a guy can cook or figureskate or dance

Same here man, and I agree completely. Cocky/funny type personalities are absolutely great for creating/maintaining attraction, but to really get the hook stuck, there needs to be a degree of sweetness to make her feel special, but it has to be done in a dominant, alpha manner. Especially when you are actually dating a girl, it's important to be sweet because it reminds her that she is special, which really is true.

[canadiankid]

There's a difference between being AFC nice and catering to her every whim and desire vs being dominant and in control of your own reality and doing something nice because YOU genuinely want to

[kolby2011]

Apr 14, 2011 6:24:22 GMT -5 Adam said:

^^totally untrue

Almost every girl ive pulled said that the reason they liked me is cuz im so sweet/nice. It works if you can pull it off im naturally sweet and thats probably never gonna change so it works for me. Girls want a balance of masculine and feminine traits. How come you think girls love it when a guy can cook or figureskate or dance

How is what I said totally untrue? Its the same thing you said. Your not gona pull an hb10 by just totally being a sweet heart sorry.

If your just way to sweet the girl might just friendzone you, "Your just too sweet for me to date, I think we should just be friends." This is what would happen.

[timmywimmy]

Can someone message me an example of how to be sweet still in a alpha way ill understand it better with a few examples (It's not for me to take for all you naturals just want something to build on )

[sleepy]

Is it just me or does anyone think PUA turns you into a heartless asshole?
I mean all girls are different and have been through different things in life...so for some of them techniques like CnF might work great meanwhile others might get offended if your cockyness.
Idk, back when I lived for PUA and its techniques I had some success with women but I was also the biggest asshole and found out the hard way that chicks don't really dig assholes.
Being sweet from my experience would be complementing them originally here and there, nothing cliche.