Playing hard to get

[perceverance]

I've heard that playing hard to get is effective for getting a girls attention and attraction because people tend to want what they cant have. I've tried it on a few occasions and it works fine. my question is, if the girl is attracted to you, will she get tired of it and give up, thinking that she actually wont be able to get you? im just asking as a precaution because i dont know if playing hard to get means completely not even looking at her, or if it means i can pay a little attention to her and talk to her but act like im not interested in her at all. can somebody clarify this?

[infamous93]

Yes if you play too hard to get then she will lose intrest, she will be confused and asking her self "Is this guy really into me, am I making a Mistake?"

[canadiankid]

Umm no. I had a girl that liked me for a good 3 years. Thank god she finally found a boyfriend two weeks ago.
Actually that's only if you give her mixed signals.

[RMO]

Think of playing hard to get as gentle teasing. Be sure to escalate at a certain point and take the lead in order to stay masculine in the relationship. It's all a game lead her on an adventure, you don't have to show interest I'd really all playing hard to get entails.

[perceverance]

^ so you do pay attention to her? I sort of ignore the chick and im not sure if she will give up on me or chase me harder haha

[spe3d]

pay some attention to her. it helps if she's in a group because you can DHV to the group without seeming interested in her and it will show dinterest, but don't forget kino!

[Luis the awesomest of awesomes]

playing hard to get is pretty much a type of cocky funny

[DanZy]

^not really. It's role reversal

[perceverance]

alright, once she starts actually showing interest in me, should i start paying more attention to her or keep paying the same amount of attention to her?

[infamous93]

^ pay more attention to her definatly.

Don't come off as needy of desparate of course

[RMO]

ITs like danzy said, role reversal, you are like the really hot chick who doesnt seem interested, she is still paying some attention, but she just doenst show that much interest. You need to be observant of a vibe, its attractive to know whats going on but playing hard to get is not showing interest in her specifically, sending mixed signals, all that shit HB nines and tens do.

[perceverance]

Ooh ive heard that word mixed signals before, is that when a girls gives you an IOI and then a IOD?

[RMO]

What your talking about is flirting. Mixed signals is saying one thing and doing another, for me
mixed signals usually show up in the split between body language and voice tone, not the contnent

[Adam]

i heard hard to get works great for attraction but when the girl "gets" you she quickly loses intrest

[Nick]

All these different ways of describing game can be generalized into the cat and string method. It's how men naturally game.

Once the cat gets the string, yeah it does lose interest... until you pull it away again. And you can pull it away a dozen more times before the cat truly loses interest.