Scared for the change.

[Smurf]

Ok so I've understood the fact that I need to just have fun and be a good friendly person but don't be afraid to take chances and whatnot. I'm scared that if I stop being an asshole all the time and change my mindset I'm going to be an AFC and be a complete nice guy. I know that isn't what I want to be. So how can I change but at the same time embody all of these traits without coming off as a little errand boy?

A few examples are when a girl asks you to get something. If I did what she asked everytime then she is just going to take advantage of me. So how would I still be a nice guy but not get walked all over?

[canadiankid]

The fact that you think you need to be an asshole to get girls worries me. You need to be alpha and a leader, not an asshole. Don't go do everything for the girls but do what you want because you want to. If you want to help, help. Don't help because she's asking. And trust me, the asshole route is not the one you want to take, especially in HS.

Anyways, taxman makes a legitimate point

[Smurf]

Well I usually am not an asshole and in fact a really nice person. (Bad experience were I used to be extremely whipped.) I guess it was just a stage to go through and experiment. I think I was just going a little extreme on the negs I was giving girls. That is definitely different now but thanks for the insight.

[infamous93]

Be fun, and nice(ish) but the rule to not getting walked all over is to do what you want all the time.

If she asks you to do something and you don't want to do it then don't, if there is no gain for you then don't do it.

[perceverance]

Think of it as being a fun asshole. But don't be a complete asshole man, just be cocky but an overall fun guy as well.

[RMO]

being an asshole is being a bitch. You get results becuase you dont beg the girl, thats it. Being a genuine hman being is so much better. I didnt say be nice and please the girl all the time, but be a man. Think of it like being a rockstar, or movie icon, rather then that douche who gets these needy women.

[Adam]

where did tax mans comment go i swear i saw it

[taxman]

I got a smite thingy for it so I took it off

[perceverance]

Apr 16, 2011 15:42:28 GMT -5 RMO said:

being an asshole is being a bitch. You get results becuase you dont beg the girl, thats it. Being a genuine hman being is so much better. I didnt say be nice and please the girl all the time, but be a man. Think of it like being a rockstar, or movie icon, rather then that douche who gets these needy women.

Agreed.

[Smurf]

lol I didn't smite you bro. I'll exalt you if it makes you feel better.

[Adam]

i didnt kno u could delete ur comment

[canadiankid]

Only your own coments. Why'd you get smited, it was only slightly smart ass

[taxman]

Good question