Smurf
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Post by Smurf on Apr 17, 2011 18:47:51 GMT -5
So I am always thinking about pick up or interactions with a girl. I know I should be carefree and picking up girls is easy and fun. But what kind of techniques did you use or use now to not worry, be carefree, and just have a good time? It feels like I always have to be in pick up mode and I can't just be myself at certain times. So basically I am saying what techniques should I use to just make this my natural self without thinking about it 24/7?
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spe3d
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Post by spe3d on Apr 17, 2011 18:54:10 GMT -5
Prodigy introduced me to "60 Years Of Challenge". This helps soo much. Just google it.
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Smurf
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Post by Smurf on Apr 17, 2011 18:58:05 GMT -5
Just wondering is this part of the transformation from becoming an AFC to begin a natural way of life?
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Post by spe3d on Apr 17, 2011 19:00:19 GMT -5
yessir. It helps sooooo much if you have an anxiety of getting rejected. It really makes you a fearless natural because it emphasizes you not having to use pickup material to try and get a girl to think that you are interesting.
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Smurf
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Post by Smurf on Apr 17, 2011 19:03:53 GMT -5
I really don't have a problem getting the balls to approach people. It is just when I do this it ends up being kind of awkward sometimes if I don't have a good way to start the conversation up. I think it's hilarious to go up and just start talking to random people.
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Post by carnival182 on Apr 17, 2011 21:46:32 GMT -5
What version of 60 Years of Challenge are you guys reading? I downloaded one with 4 ebooks, but idk if i've got all the material I need from it.
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Post by RMO on Apr 17, 2011 22:23:08 GMT -5
its actually one book broken up into four seprate ebooks, and yes that is the challenge. I need you to understand that it is one of the best books you could possibly read to get girls, also read book of pook....RIGHT NOW!
The challenge requires intense will and willingness to change. Empty your cup of all assumptions and just freaking read it with a clean mnd.
and smurf, that awkwardness is your secret weapon, use it to keep the tension running as hot as possible. And yes, it is hella fun.
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Post by perceverance on Apr 18, 2011 19:19:16 GMT -5
Prodigy you always say that and I still don't understand haha. Can you give me some examples of when awkwardness = sexual tension and how a chick would think of awkwardness or react to it? I'm soooo confused
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Post by infamous93 on Apr 18, 2011 19:24:29 GMT -5
Can you guys post a free download site for the 60 year challange please
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Post by RMO on Apr 18, 2011 19:32:43 GMT -5
give some examples?
dude any tension between a man and a woman is SEXUAL TENSION. The awkwardness is just your body telling you about it.
and man, if you want an example, go talk to some girls every once in awhile.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 18, 2011 19:35:53 GMT -5
So I am always thinking about pick up or interactions with a girl. I know I should be carefree and picking up girls is easy and fun. But what kind of techniques did you use or use now to not worry, be carefree, and just have a good time? It feels like I always have to be in pick up mode and I can't just be myself at certain times. So basically I am saying what techniques should I use to just make this my natural self without thinking about it 24/7? Here's your problem... you want techniques... to help you stop overthinking techniques  Stop thinking so much. Do what you want. Have fun. |
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Post by Adam on Apr 18, 2011 19:39:00 GMT -5
I had the same question before but i think an example is go up to girl say hi and say nothing after and keep eye contact
p.s fine line between creepy and sex beast very fine line
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Post by kolby2011 on Apr 18, 2011 20:03:10 GMT -5
Just start talking to girls normally, then as you gain confidence start the escalation process. (which means your starting to game her) Girls are people too, and always remember "Nike, Just Do It."
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Smurf
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Post by Smurf on Apr 18, 2011 20:08:30 GMT -5
haha well I'm glad I sparked up a good conversation. Hopefully this weekend I'll go out and sarge and whatnot and report how I did. Then I can figure out what I need to work on since my old style of gaming a girl was pretty good but not consistent.
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Post by perceverance on Apr 18, 2011 22:31:03 GMT -5
give some examples? dude any tension between a man and a woman is SEXUAL TENSION. The awkwardness is just your body telling you about it. and man, if you want an example, go talk to some girls every once in awhile. Hey no need to get insulting. I just think girls will see you as a creep if you LIKE to have things awkward. From what i've noticed, most chicks try to AVOID awkwardness. |
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