im too insecure :S

[whosyourdaddy1]

hey guys, id appreciate if u guys gave me ur opinion on this, and sum advice

ive been in a ltr for nearly 4 months, and ive been very very close with her for a year. we usually see each other everyday but since its holidays now, ive been out with her 4 days out of 9.

my first problem is ( and im feeling very afc><) in regards to talking on msn. we usualy talk everyday on msn, but wen she replies slower than usual, its because shes talking to her friends or watching youtube. i get very insecure when shes talking to this other guy even tho i noe she talks to me like 100 times more than she does to him(on msn and in real life), and theyre just friends(hes my friend too). im prety sure she tlaks to him quite abit tho on msn. this annoys me because it feels as if shes replying slow to me since shes talking to another guy.

the other nite, at a carnival she went to she told me how happy she was with her life these days(which was because of me). so logically i shud be all happy and not worry about nething. however when we get home she doesnt reply so fast to me on msn and i noe shes talking to a girlfriend of hers and this guy.

i cant realy bring it up aye? can u guys tell me if its totally my problem?

thx brothers

[bballphenom]

I think you need to just stop worrying about it. I know its hard to do but just stop. Go do something else and forget about her for like 10 minutes and come back. I'm texting this girl right now and she's starting to not text me as much and she's fucking hott but I'm not worried cause I know I'm the prize and any girl would want me. That's what you have to think, your bettter than this guy. You already have her, don't worry. You just got to convince yourself that she's talking to just one of her girl friends or on youtube.

[canadiankid]

It's natural for girls to have a guy friend that they are deep into the ljbf zone mutually. It's also natural for you to be jealous/insecure but don't worry about it and it's fine.

[Nick]

If she's slower to reply, it's directly related to her being less interested. Most likely, your conversations are boring, but I don't blame you, if I had to talk to a girl every day on MSN I'd even get pretty damn boring.

Maybe you should cut yourself off from her a bit.

[taxman]

Stop being a pussy, you have the girl, she's happy with you your happy with her and your worried that she doesn't reply fast enough ? .. Come on. Go do something you enjoy that gets you away from talking to her on msn all the time.

[whosyourdaddy1]

thx boys appreciate it

yeh ima not worry guess ive been assuming to much

(y)

[spe3d]

Jeez that almost made me It just sounds (TO ME) Like she is comfortable being around you and she trusts you, but she's not as attracted to you as when you first started dating her. The good news is that there are sooo many ways to get that attraction up that you can find on the website. I'd start touching her more. Very light at first if she's not used to it. Things like high fives, thumb wrestling, and tickling. Then ESCALATE to things like smacking her ass. Get more sexual and be unapologetic about it. Here's some good material for starters:

highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=attraction&action=display&thread=573

highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=attraction&action=display&thread=2500

highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=attraction&action=display&thread=2043

[Amb1valence]

No offense dude but you kinda sound like a little bitch. Hahaha I'd work on your inner game first, becoming confident and alpha before trying anything serious with her, because even if you attract her now, you might get into a later stage of the game and not know what to do, and fuck it up then. Look at

highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=confidence

That board for a while, and get up your confidence. While you're doing that, learn to be alpha and be a fucking man by reading The Book of Pook. It has great explanations of testosterone and how to be a fuckin beast. It feels so good to know you're a big beastly man who walks like a tank and does what he wants, and it makes it SOOO much easier to be around girls because that attitude radiates off of you.

[infamous93]

Apr 21, 2011 13:29:05 GMT -5 Amb1valence said:

No offense dude but you kinda sound like a little bitch.

WTF!!!! How is that not offensive?!

Back to the problem at hand, I think you need to get in touch with your masculine side a bit more.

Stop msning her everyday, be playful, tickle her, tease her, tell her that she is a goof. Whenever you are around her always have fun, she will forget the other guys if you do these things.

[infamous93]

Also get rid of that attitude, you are not too insecure.

If you want to do well your attitude will have to change majorly.

[canadiankid]

No need for major change, that'll just fuck you over in this situation. She obviously likes you, maybe go on msn slightly less, reply slightly slower, and definitely be a bit more touchy.

[amarok]

Agree with Canadiankid. But also, like others said, when the conversation gets boring, stop it and do something else. Believe it or not, it's a relief for her just as much as it is for you. I had to take a cue from my brother and friends with this. You don't need to text her or be talking to her 24/7, so when your conversation gets boring or repetitive, say you're gonna go for a bit and you'll talk to her in a bit. Then do something you want to do. Play video games, do some reading, do some homework. Just get your thoughts away from her.