leetpete
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Post by leetpete on Apr 24, 2011 20:26:41 GMT -5
So there is this girl at school i dunno who she is as i have her in none of my classes. She passes by my locker everyday after 7th period, shes pretty cute so i'm thinknig of just manning up and talking to her, go up to her and say something like I dont want to come off creepy (in a joking tone) but your pretty cute so i figured id come talk to you and get to know you since i dont have any classes with you or anything, if her reaction is good then i continue for a minute then say i ahve to get to class and get her number for later. If its bad then no big deal i have no clue who she is and i doubt she knows who i am so it really doesnt matter if she doesnt like me. so either way i win. If she likes me I have a new girly friend, if she gets creeped out then it doesnt really matter. sounds pretty solid?
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Adam
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Post by Adam on Apr 24, 2011 20:47:03 GMT -5
Your opener is a bit long might wanna shorten it to something like: "hey your pretty cute what's your name" but remember opening fast is better than opening well.
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leetpete
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Post by leetpete on Apr 24, 2011 21:21:44 GMT -5
@milehighclub
that pretty much sums it up, sorry about the confusing papragraph re-reading it i can see i wasn't too clear, thoughts go faster than i can type.
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Post by canadiankid on Apr 24, 2011 21:46:12 GMT -5
"hey I see you all the time, why don't I know you"
It's not a big deal, like your trying to convince your self that it's not. So take a page out of Nikes book and just do it
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jester
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Post by jester on Apr 24, 2011 22:39:06 GMT -5
^(clears throat)
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stubblejumper
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Post by stubblejumper on Apr 29, 2011 1:31:47 GMT -5
The key in my opinion is to keep it short and sweet and not come off as creepy. Usually what I do when I am trying to start a convo with a hot broad is just go up and introduce myself. You could ask her about classes or some shit like that and as long as she is not some total bitch she will usually reply. Keep the convo going a little and then ask for the number. Then you just try and work your game and escalate the situation from there. You never know until you try so give it a shot.
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Post by canadiankid on Apr 29, 2011 6:54:20 GMT -5
Or the never fail classic
"hey"
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infamous93
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Post by infamous93 on Apr 29, 2011 17:04:12 GMT -5
^ yup
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spe3d
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Post by spe3d on Apr 30, 2011 11:45:22 GMT -5
\like I dont want to come off creepy (in a joking tone) but your pretty cute so i figured id come talk to you and get to know you since i dont have any classes with you or anything, if her reaction is good \ Ahhhhh  ! Say no such thing with thy mouth! The first part (I dont want to come off creepy) comes off as too apologetic and would most likely make her think you are creepy. I like the (your pretty cute so i figured id come talk to you and get to know you) part though. Its direct, natural and if you say it masculinely, it should be flawless. (i dont have any classes with you or anything) You're not supposed to notice you don't have classes with her. Be spontaneous. Don't care so much about her. There are probably 23892382 girls in the US that look better than her(not being rude) and 474893 that look just as good. If you end up coming off as creepy, Oh well! That's her loss that she won't ever IN HER LIFE get another chance to figure out how interesting and cool you really are. Too bad keep it moving brother! Sweat over no girl. -Spe3d |
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Post by Contempt on Apr 30, 2011 12:20:30 GMT -5
you can pretty much say whatever you want. Its all about body language and how you say it. However, as your new, I'd probably recommend something like "hey" or what canadiankid said. Good luck, i believe in you man.
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BROner
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Post by BROner on May 1, 2011 14:43:03 GMT -5
This thread is full of over-thinking.  |
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spe3d
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Post by spe3d on May 1, 2011 16:23:49 GMT -5
^^^Na, not at all. You guys are slowly moving into the "Just Be Yourself" advice. You have to admit that there is a strategy to getting girls besides just "Body Language". That alone won't get you the girls. Every REAL natural can tell you that as well as every REAL PUA. Its more than just "walk up with a confident posture". Some people just think that because they know how to get girls now, they can just give out any plain, general advice now, which is not true.
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! Say no such thing with thy mouth! The first part (I dont want to come off creepy) comes off as too apologetic and would most likely make her think you are creepy. I like the (your pretty cute so i figured id come talk to you and get to know you) part though. Its direct, natural and if you say it masculinely, it should be flawless. (i dont have any classes with you or anything) You're not supposed to notice you don't have classes with her. Be spontaneous. Don't care so much about her. There are probably 23892382 girls in the US that look better than her(not being rude) and 474893 that look just as good. If you end up coming off as creepy, Oh well! That's her loss that she won't ever IN HER LIFE get another chance to figure out how interesting and cool you really are. Too bad keep it moving brother! Sweat over no girl.
